I think by the time you finally go into labour your so glad itsgonna be over soon that ure just kinda relieved its started!! I wouldnt worry because at the end of the day if it was that bad people wouldnt have more children!! I didnt actually find labour that bad. i managed on gas and air for 10 hours before being sectioned due to not progressing and ryan not coping but those 10 hours FLEW by! you will wonder where the time has gone!