Today I will see a family for the first time since they lost their twins. They were just over half way there and the mum-to-be looked fab the last time i saw her all glowing and happy. We haven't had any contact with them since it happened, and found out therough mutual friends. Emotions are bound to be running high as it only happened extremely recently. I don't obviously want to put any detail in this as it is a private matter for them and I struggled over whether I even had the right to mention it to anyone else but I'm really struggling over what to put in our card. I'm finding it doubly hard as I feel like I will be adding insult to injury showing up with my bump intact and am actually hoping they won't be home so we can get accross our sypathy without them having to see me.
There really is nothing I feel I can say that will help. Anything I think of seems so sterile like I'm speaking about/to a stranger. They are words anyone could use.
I suppose I'm really looking for those who've lost to tell me it will get better for them.
There really is nothing I feel I can say that will help. Anything I think of seems so sterile like I'm speaking about/to a stranger. They are words anyone could use.
I suppose I'm really looking for those who've lost to tell me it will get better for them.