What Do I Do? Help??

[faithsmummy]

Just thought id let you all know i have reported them to social services!
it took alot for me to do this and now im worrying whats going to happen next but this time to my family!
thanks for your advice girls just hope this little girl gets a better life!

 

[gingerpig]

Well done you, that took a lot of courage! Hope it will a lot of difference, and that you will all be safe ((((hugs))))

 

[Tan]

Well done on reporting it. it must have been really hard for you but its the right thing to do. Maybe SS can say they are following up the childs welfare because of his court case and the drugs etc. Then they wouldn't necessarily say it came from you? I'm sure it will all be fine though, you'd have felt worse knowing that it was going on and you hadn't done anything about it.

Tan x

 

[Em78]

ah well done hun - really proud of you!

as ginger pig said that took courage babe! try not to worry - i know it seems obvious to you that it was you but i think there were a lot more worried people around that girl and they wont realise who it was at all

if you feel any threat at all from these people dont hestitate to call the police and explain the situation - they are there to protect people like you and your family so please try not worry and feel good that you have done the right thing. lets hope they act on it now.

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[cassi]

you dont give your reasons for saying you cant get police or social to intervene, yet this is obviously in the childs best interests for you to do so. What you have described above is pure and simple child abuse..... they are abusing cocaine.... what happens if they accidentally left some about while they were off their heads and the child took it? or if there was something serious happened to the child while they were under the influence?
im sure its a very hard decision for you to make, but this is a child your talking about...

I see you dont read topics in full as she did explain her reasons further down the first page


Congrats for telling SS!

it was definatly for the best hun...they probably did worst things too but didnt tell anyone...they obviously dont love the child at all they sound like sick people.

well done!

 

[faithsmummy]

thanks cassi,
yeah that post you quoted did upset me a bit as i did try and explain my situation as well as i could!
thanks again im pleased i have done it now lets hope she gets the help she needs!

 

[Penstraze]

Well done for reporting them, that took alot of guts, but now you can sleep abit easier (bump alowing!) knowing you have done something which will hopefully lead to the end of abuse for this poor little girl!
I really hope you do not get any reprocusions from this, from what you say I think other people must be aware of the way they live and treat their daughter so hopefully it wont be too obvious to them who has reported them, I am sure the ss will be careful in what they say to them to protect you and your family! Did you explain to them your fear of reprocussions on yourself and your family?

 

[faithsmummy]

Well done for reporting them, that took alot of guts, but now you can sleep abit easier (bump alowing!) knowing you have done something which will hopefully lead to the end of abuse for this poor little girl!
I really hope you do not get any reprocusions from this, from what you say I think other people must be aware of the way they live and treat their daughter so hopefully it wont be too obvious to them who has reported them, I am sure the ss will be careful in what they say to them to protect you and your family! Did you explain to them your fear of reprocussions on yourself and your family?

yes i did tell them that i didnt want my name metioned and that what could happen! they have said that they shouldnt find out it was me!

 

[Penstraze]

Thats good! I am sure they will have too much else to worry about once ss get involved to have time to try and work out who might have reported them! You should be very proud of yourself providing ss do their job properly you should have made a big different to that little girls life!!!

 

[Jo]

Oh well done darling

i know how hard that must have been for you
you've done the right thing and as i said before you won't have been the only one they have "bragged" to

You said they were drug dealers yeah?

even people who use drugs have hearts sometimes and it could have been one of them as far as they know

keep us updated hun and well done again you were so brave

 

[littlebump]

Well done hunny - that must have been extremely difficult for you.

Keep in touch and let us know how things pan out & look after yourself & your little bean

xx