Crimson92
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I keep looking at my baby and feel like I never know what she wants and can never soothe her, she stayed at her grannies for the first time the other night and was apparently great but she is up every two hours with me, I keep going through motions of crying and then getting angry (at anything that makes a noise, not the baby) and then cooing over her and loving her when she is asleep but just not feeling like I can do anything when she is crying.
I know it sounds really bad but sometimes I just think I want to put her down and just leave her for some one else to give her what she wants because I can't. But I never would because I know she needs me.
I was balling my eyes out the other night because I felt I just couldn't do it and just can't do it when OH isn't there, and was ready to tell him everything when he came in, but as soon as he walked in I just clammed up and never told him anything, and then he told me he might be joining a football team and on his only two days off he will be busy - but I really feel I can't do anything without him and then just can't control my emotions.
Its took me alot to write this down and admit to feeling the way I do, please any advice on how to get over this bump in the road? x
I know it sounds really bad but sometimes I just think I want to put her down and just leave her for some one else to give her what she wants because I can't. But I never would because I know she needs me.
I was balling my eyes out the other night because I felt I just couldn't do it and just can't do it when OH isn't there, and was ready to tell him everything when he came in, but as soon as he walked in I just clammed up and never told him anything, and then he told me he might be joining a football team and on his only two days off he will be busy - but I really feel I can't do anything without him and then just can't control my emotions.
Its took me alot to write this down and admit to feeling the way I do, please any advice on how to get over this bump in the road? x