What a week!

Hope1111

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Hi everyone

I felt that I should give a little hope out there to all of you as I've never come across a story like mine.
I'm 32, been married for 5 years, trying for 6.
2 years ago we were finally referred to St. Marys in Manchester, it took another year before we actually got an appointment (2010). We had unexplained infertility.
Since September 2010 we had been making the expensive monthly trips to the hospital, which we did until March 2011 to be told everytime that my egg count was not high enough. I was ready to give up, it was too hard emotionally.
We went on holiday in July and it was the best holiday ever, so relaxing.

Earlier this week on Monday 8th August I bought a pregnancy test which I'd not done for over 4 years as it was getting expensive! The reason I bought this test was because I started bleeding after my 'period' which I now know was not one.
It was positive, I took another one-same result, I made my husband drive me to Sainsburys to get a Clearblue test, two tests - same results.
I've been to the doctors several times this week, each visit I've made them do another test as I was still in shock! they're positive.
I've had blood tests too to try and determine how far along I am, they estimate I'm 7 weeks but unfortunately my ECG level has dropped significantly so I have to go to the hospital tomorrow and I'm preparing for the worst, they've said its not good. I've been bleeding on/off with a few cramps a little clotting but not heavy or bright red so they didn't see any cause for concern prior to this as everyone is different.
My point being its taken me 6 years, hang on in there, I know its hard and emotional and the unexpected happened to me, might not be the outcome I'd hoped for but I'm now a believer again.
 
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Wow, it's great news that you were able to get pregnant!! Fingers crossed for You.
 
That is a very unique story. I really hope it works out for you hun xx
 
Fingers crossed everything goes okay for you , you are so strong :) xxx
 
That brought a tear to my eye, wishing you all the best xxx
 
Hope1111, that's amazing!! It gives hope to us all. I'm saying a prayer for you that you and your baby are ok. Take care!

Xx
 
aww hope everything is okay. every1 deserves a happy endin :) xxx
 
Hi

Thanks for your messages. Unfortunately I'm miscarrying but I'm looking at the fact at least it happened sooner rather than later.
I went to the early pregnancy unit at my local hospital and they took another blood sample, called this afternoon and my ECG level is going down but too low for a scan as they won't see anything - its under 1000 now (not the same equipment they have at St. Marys) so have to go again on Friday just to check the ECG gets to under 5.
I still have a few symptoms and they will go eventually.
But don't give up people!!!!!!! hang on!!! I actually whispered to myself today that I will not be beaten and I will persevere!
I've had my fair share of friends give birth and 4 nieces and nephews arrive during these years, everywhere you look theres a baby or someone pregnant, I'll hold my hand up I did say 'It's not fair, why not me' a lot but kept going. I've only been more positive in the last year. I changed my outlook when i realised all the time I was spending crying/upset/dwelling etc etc and also the effect it was having on my husband watching me fall to pieces every month xxx
 
I'm so sorry, you're a true inspiration and one strong lady!

Xx
 

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