I think Im just obsessing about it cos at my 12 week scan they do your BMI and they told me mine was 31 and Ive known I have been overweight since I was a teenager but I've never been in the obese category before. They made a big fuss over it and it seriously upset me. They invited me to free slimming world classes and made me have a glucose tollerance test.
I was gutted cos I work so hard on my weight, I never eat biscuits, crisps, we have meat n 2 veg every night, Ive always loved fruit so thats nothing hard for me, and I always have sugar free drinks or just water, all except a glass of fruit juice per day. I never buy white bread.... I dunno over the years Ive just developed all these habits as part of my life, and then about 2-3 times a year I try and diet too. I felt like they were treating me like someone who has kebabs for dinner everynight. Its not like im not aware, nay desparate!
So by the time I was 15 weeks I got weighed again because I had the downs syndrome screen and I had lost weight making my BMI 30 (although she wouldnt let me take my boots off and at home Id weighed myself and my BMI was 29) but they didnt bat an eyelid and wouldnt change my BMI category on my notes. grrrrr. They've given me this leaflet about the dangers of obesity in pregnancy and how important it is that I dont gain too much weight during my pregnancy, but theres no guideline for how much is too much and noone will tell me. I asked how I was doing at my last midwife appointment and she told me not to worry about it. Good grief people! So since then I thought sod it, and have been craving loads of sugar so Ive gone for it! Really thought I wouldve gained like a stone, Im sure if Id eaten like this pre-pregnancy I wouldve gained a stone, Ive been known to gain 15 pounds in a week on holiday!
rant rant rant. SOrry bout that! But I just feel like i cant really eat what I want just cos Im pregnant, my leaflet says pregnancy "is not an excuse" I just wish they'd be more specific about what Im supposed to do!