My OH and I are getting married on the 1st March, was ment to be this xmas abroad but we were considering bringing it closer and having a small local wedding due to close family not being able to aford to attend if it was abroad, then found out I was pregnant which made decission for us and we booked it up!
When we were going to marry abroad I made it clear to my parents that they couldnt bring their partners to actual wedding to try and that they had to be civil and I wouldnt have them arguing on my wedding day - they both agreed to this.
Now the wedding is booked my Mum is not happy at all about her fella not being invited saying Ive hurt his feelings and doesn't want to come, from what she's said its obvious she only wants to bring him to prove to my Dad how well shes doing without him which really annoys me that she cant be without her bloke for the 30minute service to see her own daughter get married!! Shes also annoyed im not inviting my younger sister to the wedding, which I find very sad but shes been nothing but rude to my OH for the 7 years we've been together, so he wont have her there, I don't really want her there anyway because we dont get one, shes but a downer on every family occassion for me in the last year and I wont have her do that on my wedding, she would only complain that her heroine dealer boyfriend isnt invited anyway and kick off when she knows im pregnant cause shes just had an abortion (which dispite me being pregant but not knowing it when she had an abortion means I should feel bad for being pregnant or something!!!!) and I dont want all the upset on my wedding day, I dont need this stress right now its really getting me down!
Sorry for long rant just needed to get it off my chest!
When we were going to marry abroad I made it clear to my parents that they couldnt bring their partners to actual wedding to try and that they had to be civil and I wouldnt have them arguing on my wedding day - they both agreed to this.
Now the wedding is booked my Mum is not happy at all about her fella not being invited saying Ive hurt his feelings and doesn't want to come, from what she's said its obvious she only wants to bring him to prove to my Dad how well shes doing without him which really annoys me that she cant be without her bloke for the 30minute service to see her own daughter get married!! Shes also annoyed im not inviting my younger sister to the wedding, which I find very sad but shes been nothing but rude to my OH for the 7 years we've been together, so he wont have her there, I don't really want her there anyway because we dont get one, shes but a downer on every family occassion for me in the last year and I wont have her do that on my wedding, she would only complain that her heroine dealer boyfriend isnt invited anyway and kick off when she knows im pregnant cause shes just had an abortion (which dispite me being pregant but not knowing it when she had an abortion means I should feel bad for being pregnant or something!!!!) and I dont want all the upset on my wedding day, I dont need this stress right now its really getting me down!
Sorry for long rant just needed to get it off my chest!
good for you why should yuo jeapordise YOUR enjoyment of YOUR day for anyone 
and went on to spread loads of other rumours about my DH, me and my daughter. And unfortunately I have pictures of her in some of my wedding photos... but thank the gods for photo shop 
It will be really sad if I have to get married without my Mum there due to pettyness. Im not sure I can forgive her if she doesn't come but I don't want my baby to miss out on having a Gran. Will just have to wait and see what happens I guess and if she sees sense in time but Im not backing down, I will be marrying the man I love whether shes there or not and I intend to enjoy every second of it, she'll be the one missing out!
