Not sure if i'm putting this in the right section but... I've been engaged to my OH for just over a year now, so yesterday we decided that as we don't really want a big wedding and can't afford to save alot we'd just get married as soon as we could afford it. We booked the registry office for the 3rd of May and started letting people know... One of my best friends, who i've known for about 25 years text me back saying that she's going to France that weekend. I text back saying that i can't get married any other weekend because they were booked up until June and my OH can't get any time off work then. She sent another text saying "Where are you having it? We're going to france friday to sunday" Am i being out of order for being annoyed that she's going to france instead of to my wedding?! The thing is, she goes to france like once a month to buy alcohol, i'm only gonna be getting married once! Plus, it seems that every time any of her friends does something she has to make it all about her. We had a christmas party in december and she phoned up our friend saying it was weird we were having it in december because she won't be able to go! It's just annoying that she expects everything to revolve around her.... even my wedding! Or am i being nasty?!