samwalker2008
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Hi, I'm trying to make the story as short as I can but include the main points I need advice on. Basically my ex laura has sadly just had a miscarriage. I don't know much about the timing of these pregnancy related issues and Is why any advice is really appreciated. We last slept together on a one night stand about mid june. I didn't wear a condom, but she was on the pill and always took it regularly. She met a new boyfriend shortly after that (about the beginning of July) and she did explain to me that she only slept with him about 5-6 times during the short 5 weeks they were together, she was still on the pill during those 5 weeks and she still claims she never missed one. She also sensibly made sure he also wore a condom every time that had sex which makes me think her getting pregnant by him was very unlikely. She ended the relationship about two weeks ago. So it was just over 2 months ago that she last slept with me, and about seven weeks ago since she first she slept with her new boyfriend. I still can't work out how she even got pregnant while being on the pill for 2 years without a problem, but hey, it happens I guess. My question is, do most miscarriages happen within six-seven weeks after intercourse, or are they more likely to happen around 2 months or longer. This would help to clear up wether she was more likely pregnant by me before she met this new guy, or wether he made her pregnant during these last 7 weeks. I'm very upset that she's had a miscarriage because it's an awful thing to happen to anyone, and and I'm supporting her and being there for her, but I've still got this terrible doubt that the girl I've loved all these years, may have been made pregnant by this other guy which would make me feel even more sad.. She and I think the baby was probably mine and would make more sense, but I could do with some reassuring really before she and I get back together. Many thanks for your time.
Many Thanks
Sam
26, from Essex
Many Thanks
Sam
26, from Essex