waiting for a man to be ready is like waiting to win the lottery :/

[Beckyb1991]

Hi Ladies,

After a long discussion with my partner of 4 years , 'we' have decided to wait to try for a baby. Although I'm only 22 this year I feel I am ready to start trying. And due to my sister only falling pregnant after 8years of trying I'm anxious to get started as I really want to be a younger mum. I had a miscarrage last year , the baby was unplanned but it still hurts. I truly believe I was born to be a mummy and want a big family and really want to get started. I'm currently on the pill cerazette 'when I remember to take it' but we do also use condoms. We have recently had to move in with his mother due to moving to bedford from exeter ... which I hate, she is very controlling and kind of mean but we usually get on ok. We have decided to wait until we have our own place and have a few thousand in savings and I'm hoping married! We both have good jobs , I'm a care assistant and he's a security officer... unfortunately they don't pay much but I'm hoping our goals will become reality very soon!!
Sorry for the life story!

Becky xxxxxxx

 

[KC6]

I don't think men are ever really ready! lol

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

I don't think men are ever really ready! lol

My husband has been ready for a baby our entire relationship.

 

[redbear]

Yeh my fella was ready and left it for me to decide when to start ttc, but he is using his head with the finances etc, but your heart says now doesnt it! xx

 

[mylullaby]

My fella has been broody for longer than me but weirdly he's also the one who talks about saving up before TTC the most! Can't win!