Very worried about scan

[jennywren1982]

Hi everyone.
Well going for my first scan tomorrow to S****horpe hospital and can't stop fearing the worst.
I made the mistake of watching a baby programme on discovery home and health on sky the otherday. One women went to her 12 week scan and found out that she had in fact lost her baby at 6 weeks without even knowing!! I am so worried that this will happen to me, just feeling very emotional and upset this week - being at work dosen't help at all, just want to crawl into a hole and hide.
Am struggling to get anything done at work and am finding every excuse to leave early just so i can go home and sleep! Also stupidly completing a degree course at college which just does not fit in with been pregnant! The college are being awful to me and not making any allowances at all! Just don't know what to do!!

 

[kirstyxxx]

don't worry chick!!

i had my scan yesterday and burst into tears in the hospital convinced the beby had died and i didn't know. everything was fine and it was amazing seeing the baby.

i'm also doing a degree and i'm sure you'll be fine.

post after the scan!

kirstxx

 

[smurf]

Aw hun I know exactly how you feel because I felt like that I was parnoid there wouldn't be a baby in there but there was and the heart was beating.

Lots of good wishes for you only one more day to go. all goes well for you and bubs

 

[madam bully]

I felt like this too even after having a scan at 6 weeks and 9 weeks and seeing everything was fine, I still worried at my 12 week scan, I think it's normal as we can't see what is going on in there!

Is there no-one at college you can speak to about how you are feeling? They can't discriminate just because you are pregnant?

 

[Charlotte & Emily]

I made the mistake of watching a baby programme on discovery home and health on sky the otherday. One women went to her 12 week scan and found out that she had in fact lost her baby at 6 weeks without even knowing!!

I dont think they should show things like that, its sick
I remember before my 12 week scan i was convinced i wasnt pregnant and i had got it wrong, but as soon as you see LO on the screen you forget about everything, it made me and DF cry

good luck hun

 

[weenik]

I felt like this too, even though I had a scan at 7+6 and saw the heart beating. When I went for my 12 wk scan I as convinced it wasn't ok as my symptoms had stopped. When I looked at the screen I think I had trained my mind to expect the worse so when she started saying "that's the bum and that's the head" I just asked if the heart was beating. She told me of course it was, the arms and legs were waving and kicking!

I'm sure all will go well for you tomorrow - let us know how you get on.

 

[jennywren1982]

Thanks everyone for your kind words, glad to know its not just me having these awful thoughts!
My hormones are going wild and i think i am just letting things get on top of me. Think i may have to quit college as getting no support. I go on day release from 1 till 9pm and i just can't keep awake past 5pm. The college did say they would do everything they could to assist me, but they were just words, it's definately something that they don't intend to put into practice!
Well think i am in for a sleepless night worrying about my scan tomorrow, but i can't change the outcome and what will be, will be!
Will let you all know how it all goes!

xx

 

[mummytoBee]

i thought when i went there wouldnt be a baby and i would have felt stupid with my mum and my boyfriend there but as soon as the baby shows on screen u feel a massive relief and ur on a high for days and days after, and u have ur lil scan pics to keep looking at n it flys by from then on x good luck x