Hi Cosmic,
Sorry if I'm repeating anything - I've not read the other replies yet.
I just want to say really quickly: I've done a massive amount of research, using independent scientific studies and reviews. Statistically speaking, a VBAC is a *much* safe for both mother and baby than major suregery.
Also, the consultant is not in a position to 'allow' or 'refuse' you anything. They are there to give advice, then support your informed decision. He legally cannot deny you anything. He cannot force anything either...this would constitute assault. Please don'rt think I'm a millitant, anti-medical hippy type. I'm certainly not, I actually have a lot of respect for the medical profession. But I've discovered that a lot of what they telll you you're 'allowed' is hospital poilcy, simply designed to protect them from litigation.
With regards to continuous foetal monitoring, ALL research has proven that there is NO change in outcome for babies. In other words, the same number of babies survive/die whether CFM is used or not. The only thing that does change is the C-section rate. It goes up when CFM is used.
I have a lot of other stuff you may find interesting/useful, but I don't want to type it all here if you don't want it, neither do I want to bore everyone with my findings, lol.
If I can work out how to PM you on here, I have a suggestion that may help you x
EDITED: Ah shit!! Sorry.....I didn't realise this was old, hahahaha. I'm glad you got the birth you wanted. How did it go? Did you have CFM, cannula, etc?