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[her13]

hello just wondering if anyones been in similar position or has advice,
its been nearly 8 months since my last missed misscarriage and im still not pregnant. i dont know what to do anymore. i had also had another mmc in febuary last year so it took me a year to fall pregnant inbetween them. im having periods now but no body signs of ovulation i used to have 2 days of positive opks and lots of eggwhite discharge but none anymore.
im getting nowhere with the docters really for fertility referalls its taking forever. i mean what can i do ive tryed soy ,i take vitamins im trying to gain weight. should i temp? why does it take me so long to get pregnant.

its been over 2 years now an i know some people have tryed longer but its broken my heart even more having them misscarriages as i knew id struggle to get pregnant again, ireally feel i cant take much more x

 

[honeybear]

Hi hun
Im sorry abour your mmc and how long it's been taking you inbetween. No one can really make it feel better but as my oh always tells me there is options and everything takes time if its worth it and done properly. I know the referrals take forever and the help but at least it will be in place ita taken me a year and alot of begging to get anywhere with my doctors and this is taking forever too.
If you havent tried it evening primrose and pink grapefruit juice really helped with my ewcm I never had any up until taking them two it only took about two weeka for it to start working for me
My body is playing up with ovulation as I only joined the long term ttc section this week I can appreciate how upsetting this must be
Don't give up with your doctors or your end goal of having a baby even if it hurts now there will be an answer some here to help

Xx

 

[her13]

thank you for replyin sorry your struggling too its such a long stressful journey . i just wish i could afford private healthcare so i can get clomid i just think i need something to kickstart it again it really does take a long time on nhs when is your first appointment hun? i tryed epo but didnt notice any difference. i may do some beggin for a 21 day blood test just to prove im not ovulating as im so sure! how do you no your not do u use opks? your right the time thing is very difficult cant bear it when it reaches another year. i hope you get your bubba soon too. x x x x x

 

[Blueflower]

If it helps at all, my clomid was only the cost of a normal prescription for 3 months worth. You would have to pay for the private consultations and maybe follicle scans as well but its much cheaper than IUI or IVF and it may be all you need.

 

[her13]

oh wow really i was expecting it to be pricey, are the consultations alot if u dont mind me asking? im definatly going to look into that ..really hope it works for u! xxx

 

[her13]

thank u. x x

 

[Londongirl]

The nhs hospital I was going to would only do the scans privately and they were £450 a cycle. You'd only need the scans for the first few once they knew you were ov'ing.

Fx for you xxx

 

[Blueflower]

Our initial consultation was £185, follow up was £135 I think, scans £450 and blood test £40. Quite a lot but not thousands. I wonder if you could do that whilst waiting for IVF on the NHS?

 

[her13]

sorry for such a late reply have been offline didnt want to seem rude. ive got a 21 day blood test next week so will see what happens ... my gp said theyll refer me on to get clomid but i need to sort out my weight as im slightly under my bmi.. very frustrating as i fell pregnant at this exact weight in january, he doesnt seem to believe or listen to me!

them prices arent bad! just dont think ive got that much spare cash at this moment , i found a place that does 50% military discount on treatments but ive only got 3 months till oh goes to afganistan so im seriously considering buyin clomid online i know theres risks but i feel prepared to take them :/ just desperate now xxxx

 

[her13]

i dont know if id get ivf if ive fallen pregnant before? i dont know anything about it docters dont say much just go on about my weight! xxx