unknown several miscarriage

[Lily]

Hello everyone,
first excuse my language because I'm new here & English is not my language
But I really don't know how to find a solution for my problem as I asked more than 6 doctors with no solution yet

I'm 36 years old, married three years ago, didn't have any children yet & never have any period problems or any late in its time during my life before or after marriage

well, to make it short, I have been miscarriaged four times & now the period didn't come so I made test & discovered that I'm pregnant for the fifth time at week 4.5
so please help me before I lose it again, …. please

the problem each time is the same scenario like this:
- on the first 4 or 5 weeks the hormone test (HCG) is getting higher each week till it reaches almost 20,000 or 22,000 & I can feel it most of time in breast & these things
- starting from week 5 or 6 till week 8 the hormone getting lower & lower till it reaches 3,000 only, & in sonar the embryo bag in the uterus becomes smaller each week till it becomes 100% dented & empty maximum at week 9
- then I have to make a miscarriage operation to remove the bag because it doesn't get out from itself
- starting from week zero the doctors don't hear any embryo pulse at all & they say it usually starts at week 6 but I never reached week 6 with normal conditions, which I always start to lose hormone & breast feelings & that happened each time with no change

I made all tests doctors asked from me including thyroid & thrombosis (blood liquidity) but every thing was very normal
sorry if using wrong medical terms, I only use the dictionary

so, no one have any idea till now of the reason & I became so so afraid of making another operation & lose the baby as usual
I paid too much in the third & fourth times on IVF operations, we thought it may produce strong embryo, & I toke too much medicines for blood liquidity & embryo fixing, pills & too many injections twice a day & vaginal twice a day for two months each time & I became very weak & very afraid & can't bear more injections unless for a real guaranteed result

please don't use abbreviations for medical terms because I'm not familiar with it as there are too many of them here like: "NHS, TTC, ERPC .... etc." & I don't understand any of these terms
so please use simple words

please help me please & tell me what I have to do …… I need your advice now & quickly as I finished week 4 after the last period

thanks a lot


Lily
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[puppylove]

Hello Lily,

First of all im so sorry to hear of ur loses, i really dont know what the problem can be, do you have a midwife that you can ring and ask for earlier appointments by the hospital for a scan as you have had so many miscarriage's, I myself have had 2 miscarriage's and at the minute im waiting on my blood results to come back. I really wish u all the very best with this pregnancy

Love puppy

 

[fynemum]

Lily
Sorry for you loses But congratulations on this new pregnancy.

I can't give you any answers to why you have lost, but i can tell you some advice i was given. Perhaps this might help...

First of all i was told to avoid all products with caffine...tea, coffee, coke etc. Also no alcohol.
Next I was told to take only folic acid from trying to conceive a baby until the embryo was 12 weeks. Follow a strict healthy diet with lots of fresh fruit and vegetables and lots of still water.
regular gentle exercise every day...like short walks.
try to get lots of sleep too.

try to relax about this pregnancy also....I know that is hard, but stress isn't good for you or baby. so try to do things you really enjoy.

look at the governments healthy eating guild for pregnant woman too you'll find that online.

Contact your midwife and explain your situation to her, ask for a referral to a specialist for further advice and help. Ask about the miscarriage society too. See if they can give you better advice... but most of all, go to the medical people for help and advice before taking anyone's word for things....
Good luck Sweetheart, Let us know how you get on and how your pregnancy is going, Lv Yvonne xx

 

[katyk]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear of your previous losses, you must be terrified

Here's wishing you the best of luck this time, hopefully with your doctors you are in good hands.

As the previous lady says, you can take care of your diet etc. But at the end of the day most of the time we don't know what causes miscarriages, and it's never your fault.

All we can all do next time we are pregnant, is pray.

I'm praying for you

Hugs

You could also arrange to see a counsellor, if it would help you feel less stressed etc. But that's for your own health, don't worry for the baby if you are stressed, stress is not proven to increase the risk of miscarriage.

Look after yourself and we're here for you.

Love
Kath