Ughh

[Kaala]

Ever since OH felt the baby himself its ALL about him/her, I know it's a good thing in 1 way but..If I hurt my arm he asks 'BE CAREFUL FOR THE BABY!!'
If I get shampoo in my eye: 'Is the baby alright?'
If I look a little bit sad/tired: 'Rest, or it will harm the kid!!'
If I don't eat as much: 'Finish your dinner or the baby won't grow!'
He doesn't want me to take any (harmless) medicine for my upcoming cold either just in case it will kill it..

It's all about baby baby baby, I really get the feeling it's not about me at ALL anymore, I know it's really really important that the baby is save and I have to do everything in order to stay alive just for the baby...But how he brings it..Am I really only important because of the baby to him :/

 

[Daisy2011]

Hi sounds frustrating, maybe he just doesnt understand how it makes you feel like an incubator. Just talk to him about it and see how it goes.

Good luck
x Daisy

 

[Froslass]

He just sounds like a concerned father to me. If you feel strongly about it, talk to him!

Not to be mean, but things are going to all about the baby for a good while Hun - that's what happens when you're a mummy. It can be frustrating, but it's worth it I promise.

 

[Kaala]

I know it's all about the baby, but it does annoy me a bit

 

[mirime]

Tell him he's stressing you out and that's not good for the baby!

Really it shouldn't all be about the baby, our welfare is important as well given that we have to be pregnant and then give birth!