TTC anxiety

[Princess81]

I’ll be officially in this room tomorrow I suppose.... with my coil coming out.
I feel so meh. I want a baby but ttc was such a drag with my son. Constant disappointment, ending in fertility treatment. My o/h is full of optimism but I’m just feeling anxious about the rigours of pinpointing ovulation, the dreaded TWW, symptom spotting and “what iffing”.
Despite being more than ready for another baby, I don’t think I’ll ever be ready for the ballache that is ttc

 

[Vintageling]

Sending hugs at least you have this place and we are all here for you in the good times and the bad

 

[WinterWolf]

TTC isn't great. But you never know, baby number 2 might come quickly! Plenty of people conceive naturally even if they needed help to conceive baby 1. Wishing you a short journey x

 

[Sydney]

Hi Princess81! I'm still here.. Not been trying for long, but some things have reared their ugly faces and all combined, I feel like I am going to need help along with this TTC journey. Sending baby dust to you x

 

[Princess81]

Thank you ladies.
I’m
Just venting really, maybe it’ll happen easily but I suppose last time affected me more than I realised now this cynicism has set it! Baby dust to all xx

 

[EmmaN27]

Awww try not to stress about it, you have your Son to keep you busy!

Hopefully it will be a lot quicker this time round. X

 

[netty]

Aw hun I have got everything crossed for you ( until my due date then everything will be uncrossed and flailing )
Im sure you will be fine and I know R will be well up for lots of trying

I know the pain of ttc/tww/checking temps and checking ewcm and pissing on allll the tests ! And I know my own previous experience was nothing close to your ovarian drilling but look at me now ! Boom just like that

You have got a new partner this time so fx you are up the duff ASAP so we can have cute babies close in age

 

[MoominGirl]

We also struggled so I think I'll feel exactly the same if we decide to try for another. It really was one of the worst things we've gone through emotionally. Though lots of people I've talked to now have told me they really struggled for their first but #2 or even #3 was really easy. You just never know. I hope it's easier for you this time.

 

[Princess81]

Thank you all I’m sat here mildly cramping after having the coil out.....!
I won’t go with the ovulation tests this time, my LH is out because of the pcos and I fee fairly sure I have hyperprolactinaemia as well. Never mind
I have the wedding to focus on for the time being, ideally I’ll catch within 6 months and try not to worry too much about it. Thank you all for being reassuring x