Ttc after a miscarriage

[Melanie3103]

I hope this isnt insensitive to ask...

How often do u wait to try conceive again after a miscarriage ? Anyone care to share their experience ?

Ive read some wait til after at least one peeriod has returned, ive heard some jump straight in ? If emotionally ready - do you leap straight in ?

The doctor said no reason to wait IF emotionally ready...

Thoughts?? x

 

[MrsS15]

Oh Melanie I'm so sorry to read this have you had a m/c confirmed? I'm devastated for you!

With my first I couldn't think of anything worse than dtd so we skipped a month, that was more down to how emotionally awful I felt rather than waiting for a period etc, although I do think that's the best thing to do. Not so much for dating purposes but for allowing your body the time to heal! My second was an early loss/chemical and was over very quickly and we jumped straight back to it.

You need to see how things progress and how you feel hun, it's so different for everyone.

Sending you huge hugs xxx

 

[Keeponhoping]

So sorry to read this, I've written on your other post too. I agree with Mrs S, I waited a few months between my 3 losses just to allow myself time to heal, it's emotionally​ and physically draining, even though I was so desperate to be pregnant again at the same time.

Take it one day at a time, you'll know in yourself when you feel ready. Sending you hugs. X x

 

[holli]

I have no answers for this but didn't wana read and run so so sorry to hear about your loss we are all here if you need us- your not alone xx

 

[Emily0505]

So sorry for your loss hun.

I had three consecutive MCs and we started TTC right away after each of them except for the last one. The only reason we waited after the third loss was because we were having tests done st the Recurrent Miscarriage Clinic but as soon as we'd had the tests we started TTC again.

It's a very personal choice though so it's really down to how you and your other half feel.

XX

 

[Melanie3103]

Yeah I totally get that it's a huge emotional decision.

They seemed to think that medically there was no reason to wait IF we felt like jumping straight in.

They said that it was suspected that things haven't been developing as they should've been - as it's unlikely what I described was the passing of a 9wk foetus... sorry if that's upsetting or TMI.

They seemed to think size etc, it wasn't right for a while, so was obviously for the best... as awful as it is....

Keen to try again, I think... but just getting all the info - still very numb today of course... it just took 2.5 yrs to conceive this one, and I'm 41. So I dont want to wait too long - in case it takes us 2.5 years again..

They said medically i am no more likely to suffer another, than anyone else.. and these things "just happen sometimes" - so I have to believe it wasn't meant to be...

Thank you for all your kind words ladies...

xx

 

[lillith112]

I'm so, so sorry for your loss, I had a loss in September and my due date was yesterday. We ttc straight away but emotionally I really wasn't ready. It took us 20 months to conceive that one. It's 9 months after our loss and still no luck. I'm. 44yrs old and have pcos so I think that makes the loss so much worse. Sending thoughts and love your way. Take time to grieve, I cried buckets and I still can't look at pregnant women. Hugs to you. xx

 

[treetrunks]

Sorry Melanie you must be feeling upset at the moment, if you can get back into ttc I would personally as apparently you are more fertile just after a loss?
Hope you're feeling better soon, hugs

 

[KatD]

I am SO sorry....