The stillborn got me too, its an already horrific thing to go through but there were no kind words spoken, not even a hug or some words of support, she just thanked them and watched the other birth and looked over at the baby when it was born, it happens a lot more over there but I can't quite get my head round how they just accept it? The other woman that gave birth to a stillborn was the same, they were so matter of fact about it all, the girl that was having the illegal abortion who died, she was in critical condition close to death, no antibiotics available and on a ward where there is no equipment or anything, bloody scary x