Too young?

[rbryan0205]

just to clarify i havent got children ttc for first lets hope we all get our bfps soon for those who want them!!

 

[xshauna_bazx]

hey, thanks to everyone for all your opinions. i know some people are tryin to warn me its gonna be hard...which i know it is. And i have thought it all through just dont want to be thinking i wish i had not had a baby and regret it, which if i did have one and i saw him/her i doubt i would but just cant help thinking that i dont want to make a mistake. My boyfriend is 23 and he has already said he is ready for a baby and wants to try, xxx

 

[serenitylove]

if you and your boyfriend live together and both want one i dont see the problem my only concern is that you feel the need to seek approval from anyone about your choice it your life live it! that said whatever you think motherhood is forget it its so different actually doing it they are cute babies for such a short time then the hard work really starts but i have never regreted it for a second

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

hey hun, i had my daughter when i was 19 years old, not planned. but shes the best thing that happened to me ( other then my OH)
i think that if you think that you are ready, can cope, in a stable relationship, and financial stable ( because a baby cost alot of money) you should go for it.
just remember that babies, only stay babies, for a short period of time ( if your fixated on the idea of a little baby)!
my LO was only born the other day (in my eyes) and shes already a little lady - and this is where the hard work is starting!

you said "but just cant help thinking that i don't want to make a mistake" !

it sounds like you may have a little bit of doubt hun. why don't you take time to think about it more?

i wish you all the best hun, and hope you make the right decision for you, and not for anyone else xxxx