THIS IS THE ONLY PLACE I CAN!!!!!!!!

[neeko_1]

LET OF SOME STREAM

since my family have found out that i'm pregnant.. well my two aunties, they seem to think it's a JOKE.. like i can't do it or something and it's getting to me so bad telling everyone else that i'm pregnant it's my news

one of my auntie's are pregnant she's due in April and i'm in June.. when i told her the 1st thing she said was you silly girl.. you planned it

no i fu*cking did not but i''m happy so you be happy

anyway she's going round just saying bad things putting this whole pregnancy down.. like i should be a shammed to be pregnant

(oh by the way she's 37 and i'm 19 20 when i give birth)

this is her 1st baby.. so maybe she thinks i'm just taking the lime light anyway from her but that's childish

i just got temporary accommodation from the housing to get me settled.. my mums happy to see me grow in to a women.. so she told my auntie ( the one that's pregnant. and do you know what she said.. do you she said....
THAT NOT FAIR BECAUSE ME AND DEZ .. her hubby ARE GOING TO HAVE TO STUGGLE??

what is she on about they are both working have a house, have a car and have money

that's really pissed my off what a load of sh*t

and now my other auntie is saying that now i'm getting a flat i'm going sit on my arse and do sh*t..

has no one got anything positive to say anymore??

sorry to go on.. but i had to let it out.. this is only the half of it

 

[mummytoBee]

wow thats harsh, it rly does sound like shes just jealous cos ur takin away the limelight.i must admit i have felt a bit jealous wen m8s tell me theyr pregnant i wna b the onli pregnant woman in the world atm haha, but im only young im 18. at her age i dnt no..cos i dnt no her. maybe u shd have a chat with her, its not fair for her to put u down, ur both in the same position u shd be able to tlk to her and share ur experiences x

 

[Flame]

Sounds like your auntie is jealous to me, just keep out of their way.

You'll prove them wrong.

 

[oldermum]

Definate jealousy, and from what you've wrote she's acting much younger and you are mature.

Don't rise to it, just moan on here

 

[neeko_1]

thanks ladies..

i know she's jealous but why.. it's really sad for her to think like that

and i will prove them wrong and they will feel so stupid.... 8)

but i swear anymore of this childish behaviour i'm going to pop

i'm really glad i've got you ladies

 

[cloud9]

I really feel for you...

You don't need this right now , sounds like she wants everyone to just coo around her...Well your baby is just as special and be round the people who know that.

 

[noodle1]

Sounds to me like she's jealous too and I think you hit the nail on the head with her thinking the limelight will be taken away from her.

You're not a child, you're an adult and having a baby is a wonderful thing no matter what, so don't let her upset you.

 

[neeko_1]

 

[trixipaws]

definately jealous... i'd pity her...
what's she so bitter about?
big ups to you, i hope u dont let it get u down
x

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

Yes definetly jelous!!! Some people just need all the attention on them and cuz your getting it to its pissing her off
I say ignore her and enjoy your pregnancy and you should be proud and happy for yourself.
Katrina

 

[lmarszall]

Hey neeko!

What horrible people.

I have found since being pregnant people are either really happy for me, or really nasty about it!

My two best friends (so called) were the worst and said all sorts like i am too young (um, 24, i don't think so), my partner is too young (he is 19), i have done it to trap him!!, or i have done it to get my debts written off (if only, lol)! They have been nasty.

Some people aren't worth bothering about. Me and my partner are happy so sod the rest



Lau
x

 

[Vicky_Gazerimmer]

Hi Neeko,

sorry to hear about the way you feel right now. Personally I think your a nice age to have a baby my mum was 19/20 when she had me and as she always says 'we grew up together' and have a fabulous relationship because of it. You have nothing to be ashamed of, I do however think your aunt should be ashamed of herself for making you feel this way.

Chin up hunny you'll have a beautiful baby in a few months and then no one or nothing can bother you because your baby will be the most amazing thing in your life!

 

[neeko_1]

thanks you so much ladies.. i really mean that..

i still can't believe that she's like that

but still don't hate appreciate

but i'm soo happy this are going well for once and they will continue to do so... all i care about right now is my baby growing and becoming stronger for this world...

she can sit they and BAD MOUTH ME

i'll let you all know if she starts her sh*t again

 

[GemmaTse]

hun i think you should ignore it and talk to the people who make you happy and remember if anyone is saying bad things its always jealously when you have done nothing wrong, i wouldnt even rise to what has been said either, dont let any of those things being said get you down, im sure you know who supports you and cares for you, stick with them x we get emotional to as are hormones are all over the place so not something you need, get on with the things you wanna do and that make you happy and stuff anyone thats got a problem, if they havnt got anything good to say they shouldnt say anything at all!!!! x keep smiling x

 

[Sabrina]

Hi Neeko

I don't understand why people can't just be quiet if they can't say something nice. That was very mean of your aunt... and it certainly does sound like she's jealous for some reason. She should be happy to have a pregnancy buddy so close!

I haven't told anyone in my office yet. Because of my age I'm sure there will be some nasty comments. I just hope, if they say anything nasty, it's on one of my "hormones" days. LOL Then I'll tell them exactly how I feel.


Sabrina
x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Hey hun, what does your aunt have a problem with? Your married arent you! And so what if it was planned, thats what couples (especially married ones) do! How jealous is she!!