THE LATEST PLOT TWIST! *EDITED* due to wrong wording :s

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Ok so heres the latest in my life the eastenders drama that it is:

So as many of you know my job has been causing me aloit of stress lately. So I went to see my doc yesterday and he wnats me signed off work till I am 13 weeks!!!!

I have said to him that I would prefer to be signed off in 7 day bits so I may go back to work in order to make myself look like the good person in all this. He has now contacted my employer with my sick note but also has told that their treatment of me is causing my ill health and he is concerned that if they continue I could lose my baby. Basically I have my boss by the balls :?

I am abit nervous about when I go back but we shall see. Anyway I have noticed since I have been signed off I have been much better not so much sickness and feel better in myself. My doctor is assessign me after every 7 days that I am back in to make sure me and the bean are ok.

I have to see the nurse next week too as I am having a personal problem downstairs if you know what I mean I am not sure if its because of being PG or not. Anyone else having excess discharge and itching?

Thanks! x :wave:

Actually I have just read that again, and what I meant was that he has sent them my note detailing all the illness caused though work related stress no finger pointing.
I have contacted them personally with more specific details.

sorry for confusion!!!
 
I'm surprised your doc got involved in that manner (not saying I don't believe you, please don't take it the wrong way), as when my doc signed me off with stress although they were very sympathetic to the problems I was having there was no actual proof that I was going through what I said. So for your doc to go ahead and say that to them is really putting his neck on the line. It's good that he's standing up for you though.

I would speak to CAB about where you stand as you want to be as prepared as possible for any backlash there might be from your employer.

Good luck with it all and relax. :hug:
 
yeh he does seem to be a feisty man :rotfl:
But I think he knows I am being honest with him and work know they are doing wrong. Just a rubbish situation that is causing me alot of trouble!
 
Yeh my Doc wont even give me a frigging sick note!!!!

Good luck and least you are relaxing now and feeling better thats the main thing.

Im not having excessive discharge or itching, but I think I may have a UTI and embarrisingly it is a little smelly down there, which Im presuming is from the wee if its infected!!

Im off to the Dr's on Tuesday though and going to try for another sicknote to get me off my night shift as its them that I fell really shitty on at the moment
 
glad your Doc was supportive and you are feeling a bit better :)
 
Glad to hear your getting a break from that awful work place. PLEASE enjoy it and relax. I am sure a lot of your physical alliments will improve or get better too. Stress and worry shows on us in so many different ways. So take care , get well and enjoy the leave while your can....that means don't worry about what will be said or done when you get back! you can't change things now, nor can you stress about what might be..ok? :hug:
 
excess discharge and itching would usually mean thrush ... arghh i used to get it loads...hate it...now you have made me think about it again lol!!
Get some canesten cream to soothe the itching but i dont think you can use a pessary when pg..but im sure you can take the tablets.

Glad you're feeling better and im with Kina on contacting someone about you're work..
 
Thrush was my very first symptom and I was given a pessary thingy even though I was pregnant and they said it was safe. Cleared up over night so I definitely reccommend it, although do speak to your doctor first, they all have different ideas!
 

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