stuck in a rut

[plz2ndbabysoon]

hey girls....

would love abita advise.....

me and my OH have been in a relationship for 6 and half years now..

i am very touchy cuddly loving person, with a big roaring sex drive (sorry for tmi )him on the other half complete oppisite!!

we are living with eachother 3 years, and it seems all the excitment is gone...

i love him very much, more than ever ,but i miss the wee ''dirty'' texts, and the ripping clothes of sex (yet again apoligise) is gone.

i tried to talk to him about this last nite and all i got back was "u no i love you, will u put the child 2bed"

is this wats goina be like for the rest of our lives? r maybe hes gone off me?

a few weeks ago, i got some kinky underwear thinking it may put the spice back in the relationship but he was "too tired" and me deeply deeply hurt and annoyed... we do have sex loads but its just baby making..
i do try to ask him but hes just grunts and changes the subject

ANY advise would be greatly appreciated and welcomed!!! good or bad!!

 

[Piglet10]

isnt it natural for the sex life too settle?? mine has too!! unless the drinks in!!!

BUT i know this is mean i dont look at my hubby anymore and think i want to rip his clothes off, been there done that lol but i do like the odd 'poke' (sorry also tmi) but maybe your man is the same as me. i still love my hubby loooaddss more than ever but i couldnt do all that raging hormones stuff now without laughing lol . sorry if advice is useless lolx x

 

[Mamafy]

If it's a problem to you, then it's a problem.

Perhaps the TTC has taken the fun out of things?

 

[plz2ndbabysoon]

If it's a problem to you, then it's a problem.

Perhaps the TTC has taken the fun out of things?

I think this could be a reason, after 12months ttc i think it is starting 2take its tole on us as a couple.....

maybe i should just ease off things abit and stop being a drama queen....

 

[Mamafy]

But then you wouldn't be a woman

Maybe take your foot off the accelerator

 

[Piglet10]

But then you wouldn't be a woman

Maybe take your foot off the accelerator

haha class reply!!!! xx

 

[scaredmum2be]

i feel like im stuck in a rut when m OH wants it way more than me more like every day i get to tired but he ends up moaning saying what fun is there in a relationship/marriage.

he shud of thought bout that before getting me up the duff.

i didnt realse my sex life would take a nose dive

i havent gone off him but he dont understand that but we bicker because of it but i dont wana do it just to make him happy because i wont b happy.

Life with men is hard!!