I found out I was pregnant in march this year (2014) it wasn't planned and my partner and I didnt deal with it well at the start. We had a scan to see how far along we were and to our shock we were 9 weeks. I had zero clue and no symptoms to make us think I could have been pregnant. At our scan we were told the baby had no heart beat. I had to go to an abortion unit of a hospital to lose my baby. I didnt have time to register what was going on and so many things were going on in my head. It wasn't til after I realised how horrible everything everything was. Time moved on and I came to grips with what happened. Everyone convinced me that everything happens for a reason and I understand that. I continually have dreams about being able to carry a baby with a heart beat and for some reason in each dream I can see what my baby looks like. I can't stop thinking about being a mum. Yesterday was my due date. I had a dream last night again about carrying a healthy baby. I can't stop thinking about babies and anytime I see a pregnant woman I feel so upset and don't understand what I did wrong. Can anyone give me tips how to move on?