Stroppiness

[Mamafy]

My 2 girls are like cat and dog

Any tips to get over this stroppy teenager stage? I know alot of you only have babies but some were/are teenagers not long ago whereas I'm ancient


thank you xx

 

[FebMum2Be]

I can only give advice from me and my sister being exactly the same lol 6 years difference.. Constantly at eachother.. The odd pulling hair and slapping carry on looking back is quite funny, only problem being we didn't get on until she moved out now we are like friends rather than sisters.. I hope your 2 start to get along before that though! lol, I think the age difference played a big part though, she was 18 I was 12.. I wanted her make up, hair, clothes, thongs LOL now its her asking me for my things! Tables have turned lol x

 

[Mamafy]

Oh thats good, I really want them to get along and sometimes I think it'll never happen. Too many hormones in this house, 4 girls including myself

 

[Mervs Mum]

Lock them in a cupboard until they are ready to ship off to uni

 

[Mamafy]

The temptation is there Lisa

 

[Mervs Mum]

I dont know how you do it with 2 hormonal girls.....1 is bad enough.

 

[Mamafy]

The younger one is worse I've said to hubby I'm ready to join the circus anytime

 

[ChloesMummy]

I have no advice, but I am dreading it

 

[FebMum2Be]

4 girls must be manic.. My mum is so so calm, I don't know where I got my hot head from, possible from being the baby and getting tortured by 3 older ones from I was little theres a 12 year and 10 year difference between me and my brothers and a 6 year with my sister.. I was the target

 

[Mamafy]

 

[Terrie]

im dreading this!

 

[Laura_C]

Me and my sister were just like this and unfortunately for us it didn't get any better and I ended up moving out when I was 17. Now we get on really well and are very close, we just can't live together!! There is only 3 and a half years between us.

I am the older sister, so she was forever taking my stuff and it was just the fact that she would take my stuff without asking and it always came back ruined - if it ever came back!!! I used to find my ruined clothes hidden in her bedroom, argh! Gets me mad just thinking about it, she was constantly deceptive and a compulsive liar, got to the point she started stealing money from me when I was working and I blew my top and moved in with my boyfriend (now my hubby).

TBH all the problems started when my Mum and Dad split up and my Dad brought us two girls up single handed with no help whatsoever. My sister was only 9 when they split it and really screwed her up, I was 13 at the time and I dealt with things much better. I became like a Mum to her and she hated it, looking back it was an awful time. I think that was the main contributing factor to her difficult behaviour, she went totally off the rails by the time she went to high school.

Anyways like I say we get on well now

 

[Katy_89]

Me and my younger sister (I'm 20, she's almost 18) have always got on really well, but I think it's because we're so different. We never had the rows about knicking each others stuff etc because I've always been a real girly girl whereas she goes to army cadets and never stopped playing football when she was younger xx

 

[inky]

Me and my sister were never close as kids, I'm 3.5 yrs older and we were never at an age where we 'clicked'. It wasn't until I left home at 18 and realised I actually MISSED her! We've been very, very close ever since, even though we live over 150 miles away from each other

 

[titch]

I can only give advice from me and my sister being exactly the same lol 6 years difference.. Constantly at eachother.. The odd pulling hair and slapping carry on looking back is quite funny, only problem being we didn't get on until she moved out now we are like friends rather than sisters.. I hope your 2 start to get along before that though! lol, I think the age difference played a big part though, she was 18 I was 12.. I wanted her make up, hair, clothes, thongs LOL now its her asking me for my things! Tables have turned lol x

EXACTLY the same! lol. Except I was the older one. Me n my sister are like best friends now but we definately werent when I was 18 and trying to be a woman and she was a 12 year old child trying to copy everything I did. I HATED being lumped in with her as 'the girls' cos I was so desparate to be an adult and was being treated like a kid who wasnt even in high school yet! She took my makeup. I got my first job and FINALLY could spend my own money on clothes I wanted and my sister got my mum to take her shopping and bought EXACTLY the same outfit, I was furious, I'd waited years and got a job cleaning toilets to get that outfit! I did NOT want to look like a 12 year old.

My sister now has an amazing jewelery collection so whenever we are staying at our parents I dont bother packing any

 

[scaredmum2be]

never really been close to my sister we argue about things well shes so negative on life its unreal so it annoys me because she can do things to change the way she is but she never tries lol.

never really got on as kids but then all sisters fight.
i could never live wit her her though.

Im used to not beng close though because i dont miss her that much horrible to say it but i dont prob cos we constantly clash if we see eye to eye lolx