Strobelight
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Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum and have a little problem that is doing my head in.
I am now coming upto 7 weeks with my 2nd pregnancy (I miscarried my last (1st) one at around 5 weeks in August 2010). But anyways thats not really why I'm posting here today.
My problem is, I can't stop feeling so stressed lately. Recently my fiance invited (what was supposed to be) just his friend and his friend's girlfriend upto stay at our house for the weekend, which I was fine with. But as it turns out, they brought their dog (who is known to empty it's bladder and bowels all over the house) and their 3 kids (who are all loaded with a bad viral infection) to stay at our 2 bedroom flat/appartment. They didn't even ask. My fiance goes to work early in the morning till late in the evening and I'm just left with it all.
Now I can't stop stressing if the dog has done it's business somewhere in a corner and if being around a bad virus is going to harm my foetus at this early stage. I know stress is very bad in pregnancy, but I can't help it. I'm just so angry at being left with all this when I'm already feeling terrible due to morning sickness and my hormones being everywhere. I've ended up just leaving my own house and going to my grandparents because I'm terrified the stress combined with the illness will cause me to miscarry again.
I know, I know. I must sound like complete psycho at the moment, but I just wish someone would have told me in advance so I could prepare for all this, but they didn't. I have been trying really hard to be calm since finding out I was expecting and most of the time I have been, but since they sprung this on us with no notice, I've been a total wreck. I'm also really over-protective this time round becuase of what happend last time so that isn't helping either.
Does anyone know if it will be safe to go back to my house while theres a really bad flu going around or will I just stay at my grans for a few days until they go and let my fiance deal with it. Advice would be greatly appreciated right now. Thanks. x
I am now coming upto 7 weeks with my 2nd pregnancy (I miscarried my last (1st) one at around 5 weeks in August 2010). But anyways thats not really why I'm posting here today.
My problem is, I can't stop feeling so stressed lately. Recently my fiance invited (what was supposed to be) just his friend and his friend's girlfriend upto stay at our house for the weekend, which I was fine with. But as it turns out, they brought their dog (who is known to empty it's bladder and bowels all over the house) and their 3 kids (who are all loaded with a bad viral infection) to stay at our 2 bedroom flat/appartment. They didn't even ask. My fiance goes to work early in the morning till late in the evening and I'm just left with it all.
Now I can't stop stressing if the dog has done it's business somewhere in a corner and if being around a bad virus is going to harm my foetus at this early stage. I know stress is very bad in pregnancy, but I can't help it. I'm just so angry at being left with all this when I'm already feeling terrible due to morning sickness and my hormones being everywhere. I've ended up just leaving my own house and going to my grandparents because I'm terrified the stress combined with the illness will cause me to miscarry again.
I know, I know. I must sound like complete psycho at the moment, but I just wish someone would have told me in advance so I could prepare for all this, but they didn't. I have been trying really hard to be calm since finding out I was expecting and most of the time I have been, but since they sprung this on us with no notice, I've been a total wreck. I'm also really over-protective this time round becuase of what happend last time so that isn't helping either.
Does anyone know if it will be safe to go back to my house while theres a really bad flu going around or will I just stay at my grans for a few days until they go and let my fiance deal with it. Advice would be greatly appreciated right now. Thanks. x