Stood a friend up by falling asleep ooooops

[LucyAnn]

Saturday was meant to see my mate laura about 7pm then she re/arranged for 7:30 so I went to lie down and fell asleep till 2:30am whoops had missed calls etc so tex to explain and heard nothing off her since

The thing is we av been friends years but had lost touch and over the last month or so we havent got to see each other due to her work or my hosp appointments.but has mainly been her canceling :/

Looks like ive lost a friend I am sorry but at end of day I hadnt slept properly for months n only have like a week left so am feeling worse for wear thought she would have took that into account!!

Anyone elses friendships taking a battering?xxxx

 

[TashaWink]

i've done this plenty of times--even before i was pregnant! thankfully my friends know what i'm like with my sleep!

I say don't worry too much hopefully you can still meet up and everything will be ok!

My friends have got quite distant-they stopped inviting me out...i always invite them places. But i'm sure they don;t mean to be so distant with me! 1 has just gone off to Uni and the other is working over 50hours this week as she's travelling for 3 months!

Things will change but hopefully your friends will change with you...well thats what i'm hoping!

 

[angelmma]

Has your friend fallen out with you over it? Like dont get me wrong if it was me Id be abit peed off that I had been stood up, but Id also understand the fact that you are 9 months pregnant and exhausted. Hope youre ok xxx

 

[Bee7]

I wouldn't say my friendships have taken a battering, but i definitely feel more distant from my friends at the moment. They're not very understanding and i feel very left out of things.

I can understand why your friend would be a little annoyed about being stood up but she should really accept your apology and get over it. You're pregnant, you can't help being tired. Is she still going to be so petty when baby is born cos i'm pretty sure you won't have time for silly games then! xxxx

 

[prettypenguin]

Has your friend got any children of her own?

My best friend has been really awkward and funny with me since the day I told her I was pregnant in february she hasn't got kids or a stable relationship and she has wanted kids and a family forever, but as I have got all that before her she always makes really horrible comments and critisizes everything I do, which is annoying cause I haven't really got any other close friends. Hopefully yours will understand, some people find it difficult to see how it can be tiring, myself included as I often become frustrated at how the tiniest things I do resort to me needing to sleep afterwards, I have 3 weeks to go and all I seem to do is sleep now that I have finished work lol xxx

 

[LucyAnn]

intresing hearing how all your friends are.

All myother friends are lovely they have kids etc and they even offer to visit me if i feel crappy or offer to pick me up and stuff but havent really taken advantage yet as trying to do everything myself still

Heard nothing back off laura, nope she has no children! I do understand she would be pissed off i would be too but hey im 39 weeks preg have sent an opologetic text and nothing. will just let it go just a shame as the last few weeks we have just kepy missing each other, she let me down last time an hour before we were due to meet claiming she hadnt been paid from work, and the time before she had something crop up too!

I had find it hard arranging a date because of all my antenatal apps and hosp and Mw apps :s


oh well one day she may understandxxxxxxxx