We did this as my OH and I seemed to have completely different ideas for names, you may have already tried this but, my OH and I went through a baby name book seperately, (it wasn't a massive one though!) we each wrote down a list of names we liked and went through to see which ones we both liked from each list. We ended up with a list of 10 - 15 names for both, for the boys there were 3 names that we both had on our lists so we picked Dillion from there. For the girls we still have a list of 6 names that we keep looking at and amending. x