wookie
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Hi,
Maybe I should have post this in 'relationship' but here goes my rant..
I'm starting feeling trapped being pregnant and at home.I've always been very independent,earning my own money,having my own flat and basically not owing anything to anyone (well apart from the bank !).Now I'm home earning a pittance and my OH takes me for granted..He works very long hours,he leaves home around 7 am and he's not back before 6.30 sometimes even up til 9 or 10 pm ! but when he comes home he expect his dinner ready which I don't mind most of the time.But now I get that feeling that this is my new life,I never wanted to be a housewife ! Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong being a domestic goddess but I really feel I'm going to get stuck in that role ..I live in OH flat (renting mine out) and so far I've paid my share of the bills so why should I always be the one doing the cooking,cleaning etc.. I fear it's just going to get worse and worse and I'm going to end up like my mum ,with no real life .OH has been an arse recently and because he works so much he keeps telling me that I have no consideration and that I don't realise how tired HE is every time I try to get him to do something in the house..the cheeks ! he never lifted his little finger even before I was pregnant and was working full time ..I'm really happy I'm pregnant and he is too but the future really scares me..Anyonelse is worried about their future ?
Maybe I should have post this in 'relationship' but here goes my rant..
I'm starting feeling trapped being pregnant and at home.I've always been very independent,earning my own money,having my own flat and basically not owing anything to anyone (well apart from the bank !).Now I'm home earning a pittance and my OH takes me for granted..He works very long hours,he leaves home around 7 am and he's not back before 6.30 sometimes even up til 9 or 10 pm ! but when he comes home he expect his dinner ready which I don't mind most of the time.But now I get that feeling that this is my new life,I never wanted to be a housewife ! Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong being a domestic goddess but I really feel I'm going to get stuck in that role ..I live in OH flat (renting mine out) and so far I've paid my share of the bills so why should I always be the one doing the cooking,cleaning etc.. I fear it's just going to get worse and worse and I'm going to end up like my mum ,with no real life .OH has been an arse recently and because he works so much he keeps telling me that I have no consideration and that I don't realise how tired HE is every time I try to get him to do something in the house..the cheeks ! he never lifted his little finger even before I was pregnant and was working full time ..I'm really happy I'm pregnant and he is too but the future really scares me..Anyonelse is worried about their future ?