Hi Jaqui
thanks for posting all about your AF/spotting experience. It's giving me hope... and sorry if below is TMI!
I had a BFN on Sunday (xmas day). CD 34
I had a 'bloody wipe' on Thursday evening, put in a pad and only had one small browish discharge on it by the next morning. CD 38
I had a couple of 'bloody wipes' on Friday, but nothing on pad.
I had a couple of 'bloody wipes' today, Saturday, but nothing substantial.
My period usually doesn't take such a long time to get into high gear, BUT the colour etc is not unusual. So, I am pretty sure it is AF (I really DO NOT want to get my hopes up!), but hopeful it is in fact something pregnancy-related!! I have not bought a test so will have to wait until Jan 2 (or even 3rd actually since places will probably be closed on the 2nd). By then I'm sure I'll either have had my full-blown period or, maybe I'll be PG!
Congrats on your BFP and thanks for giving hope!!