Soon to be no less and need help!

[Kymberley]

Hi everyone,

I'm 26 and 23 weeks pregnant with my first baby. I recently left my home town and gave up my job and moved away to live my partner and his parents. He didn't want to miss out on any of the pregnancy and assured me financially he would look after me and we would be ok. 5 weeks after moving Iv seen a nasty streak in him and on a daily basis I'm left sobbing my heart out due to the horrible comments he makes. I'm now in debt as he wont help me. Iv got no family or friends here and Iv never felt so sad and stupid. I'm trying not to start a row so whilst I'm here it's as easy for me as possible but that means agreeing to things I don't want to.

I'm trying to get back home but with no money or place to live it's hard,I have a app with the homeless team to see where I stand but money wise I have no idea. Waiting to see citizens advice.

Sorry for the rant just in need of friends and people to talk to.

 

[Lyllian]

Oh no hun what a horrible situaion for you to find yourself in. Im so glad though that youve realised so quickly that this isnt a healthy place for you to be. Is there anyone that could loan you money to get back to your family or come get you? X

 

[Kymberley]

Without putting on a sob story my dad is in a worse position than me and my mum has finally found happiness but neither of them are in a position to lend me money. Just hate being so far from home and having no one to talk to esp when this is meant to be a happy time

Thank you for replying really appreciate it xx

 

[CDx]

I dont really have much advice as it sounds like you are taking the right steps and meeting with the right people. I'm so glad you have realised so quickly that you need to leave for you and your baby, it can't be easy but it will be the best thing in the long run. Are you still in touch with any of your friends where you used to live that could at least help out with your travel home? If you meet with the homeless team they will probably focus on finding you accommodation close to where you are now.

Good luck.
Cx

 

[mel0013]

I'm really sorry for ur situation I can't imagine how lonely u feel. Is there any way u could borrow some money just to get home and stay with either of ur parents and then look for ur own place from there? I know my own parents would rather struggle than see me in a situation like that. Good luck with everything x

 

[quato]

Yeah I agree with the idea to try and ask parents for help, or maybe some close friends? It's always hard to ask for financial help, but in your situation I think you really need it. Too bad you didn't see through your partner sooner