Some times I feel

[Babylicious]

Like sean doesn't love me, he never makes an effort for us, never buys flowers, isn't that affectionate etc. I just feel as if I am missing out. My ex wasn't like this.

 

[x-kirsty-x]

First thing I'll say is dont compare him to your ex. Your ex must be an ex for a reason and besides, every blokes different and they all show emotion differently.

I know what you mean though, I think its just cos a lot of men arent that good at being affectionate. Daniel never buys me flowers or anything. If I want something he'll surprise me with it (like a new camera the other day!), and he bought me a new car stereo last valentines day lol. Not exactly romantic but its his way of showing he cares about me and likes to see me happy.

My OH tends to make loads more effort when he wants 'something' After he's had it he backs off for a day or two til he wants it again, then he's all lovey dovey...as if its not obvious, I can read him like a book

Im sure he loves you to bits. Its maybe just the pregnancy too, most men feel a bit left out or unsure of how to treat their partners. When I was pregnant I constantly wanted affection just to know he still loved me. Looking back I know he did, I was just feeling vulnerable and got a bit paranoid.

Try telling him how you feel

 

[Babylicious]

Basically it's now all blown up, hes started going out loads and I don't feel that he's pulling his weight around the house, I feel like he doesn't want me, paris or this baby and it would be better if he just went and I was alone. He said he can't tolerate anymore of my shit and that being pregnant isn't a reason to be moody! He threatened to leave so I've told him to go, his mates just come and picked him up (he hasn't taken anything)

I've really had it this time

 

[x-kirsty-x]

Basically it's now all blown up, hes started going out loads and I don't feel that he's pulling his weight around the house, I feel like he doesn't want me, paris or this baby and it would be better if he just went and I was alone. He said he can't tolerate anymore of my sh*t and that being pregnant isn't a reason to be moody! He threatened to leave so I've told him to go, his mates just come and picked him up (he hasn't taken anything)

I've really had it this time

Oh hun

Daniel was the same when I was pregnant, he said I used my hormones as an excuse for everything and my moods were just cos I was a twisty bitch, they dont understand that being pregnant changes everything for us girls

Im sure he'll be back. If all else fails and you're sick of him just play it really cool, pretend you dont care. Thats what I did with Daniel the other night and when he realised that I wasnt gonna chase after him and cry he soon changed his attitude

Just gotta keep 'em on their toes

Just out of curiosity, what was he like before you were pregnant?

 

[Babylicious]

Alright most of the time, although when he's drunk he's a real tw*t. He's done the whole leaving thing before too, in may typically we were on holiday he packed all his stuff including his dirty washing

I can't be bothered at the mo, he just says I'm a physco and need some help

 

[lotti77]

Hun I know exactly how you feel
My OH left me & my son on holiday in Spain a few weeks back
He thought everything would be ok when I got home but I told him straight that I'd had enough of him... you see my OH is what I call "emotionally reclusive" He is often very distant from me, keeping me at arms length and not letting me get close to him!!!!
He blames him childhood (placed for adoption & grew up in kids homes) which is fair enough, but when I try to justify my mood swings on being pregnant he doesn't accept that saying its no excuss.... typical man... its ok for him but not for me!!!!
So when I came back from Spain I told him it was over I acted really cool as if I wasn't bothered (but inside I felt like dying) He soon realised things couldn't continue and just because he's scared s******s of having this baby doesn't give him the right to act like a t**t and be a baby and throw his dummy out the pram when things don't go his way!!!!
Your OH hasn't taken any stuff with him which is a good sign but you need to decide if you can work on this or not.
You need to sit down and have a good talk but not if he's been drinking coz you won't get any where (I know my ex was an alcoholic)
Good luck hun with whatever you decide Have some of these

 

[x-kirsty-x]

he just says I'm a physco and need some help

Yep, I've had that one thrown at me sooooo many times before too

 

[Babylicious]

well he is home with pizza, should I forgive him

 

[x-kirsty-x]

well he is home with pizza, should I forgive him

Awww bless, that would make me give in cos I love food lol. How are things?

 

[Robyn_]

give in but dont give him sex lol.. use him for the food

how are things going now hunni?

 

[x-kirsty-x]

give in but dont give him sex lol.. use him for the food

 

[lillou]

just wanted to give u these hun

 

[M&Ms]

[quote="Robyn_":324ljl8g]give in but dont give him sex lol.. use him for the food

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Sorry had to laugh at this too

 

[libs]