Some advice on pregnancy after mc

[Loubalouba]

Hi

Please could i just ask for some advice/ experience? i have or I am currently miscarrying my hcg level is 53 and dropping, I am desperate to start trying again but I don't know when the best time is? Should we just start trying or wait til I have had an af? Don't I need to have an af to ovulate again?

I have a clear blue monitor to try and wondered if I should wait for af then start using that as my cycles are v irregular. It took us a year to get our BFP and I just desperately want it to happen again soon!

Thanks

Lou

 

[Flynnbear]

We had a miscarriage mid July, the nurse said that she thought I was healthy enough to try again once I had stopped bleeding and felt mentally ready! I fell pregnant again straight away! I would check with whoever is dealing with your . current miscarriage though as every situation is different. I'm really sorry for your loss, it's such a horrid thing. Fingers crossed that it won't be long before you get another BFP, Good Luck

 

[Karate Kid]

So sorry for your loss Hun. We have just had a MMC, baby stopped growing at 8 weeks but didn't realise until 12 weeks .... I miscarried naturally.

We were told by the doctor who discharged to wait for an AF and a few others have said the same.

On the other hand plenty of doctors have told me that if I feel ready emotionally to TTC then there is no real reason to wait. Hubby and I are taking the NTNP route but I have used ovulation sticks to work out where I am in my cycle.

Whatever you choose to do baby dust to you Hun. We are here whenever you need us. Xx

 

[Loubalouba]

Thank you and sorry for your loss too it's awful to go through and goes to show that it really is a fragile process but people obviously get there eventually as I am surrounded by pregnantladies and ladies with newborns!!

I have terrible back ache today and the start of af pains, because I have not bled yet I presume this will be an awful af as I normally really suffer anyway

I will see how I feel in a few days when I have totally got to grips with what has just happened and see if this is af!

Eugh just longing for a baby my heart aches it's like I am constantly dealing with heartache....

Thank you ladies it helps to write about it and hear I am not alone in this xxxx

Sticky baby dust back xxx

 

[Karate Kid]

Hug hun, take some time and look after yourself. It's tough when you are surounded by constant reminders but rest assured it will happen for you too hun.

xx

 

[xlindseywells]

Sorry for your loss. We had our miscarriage at the end of June/start of July. We tried again when we were emotionally ready, I didn't have a period either. We found out I was 3-4 weeks pregnant on the 4th August. So we conceived straight away again! Things are running smoothly.

All the best xx