Hey just wanted to pop on and say good on you for punishing your OH!! Men really know how to put there foot in it!
My OH was a bit blasé about the whole ttc, especially when it came to af arriving. I would be sobbing into my pillow like some1 had just died and all i'd get was 'Ah well dont worry about it, it'll happen eventually' not the right thing when 'eventually' isnt good enough. In the end i pulled him up and told him i didnt want to hear all that what will be will be crap, i just wanted cuddles and some1 to listen while i ranted about it not being fair! Now tho i have gotten to the 'what will be will be' stage!!
Good luck with your doc appointment today! Oh and your doc shouldn't mention your weight, a size 16 is average size for ladies in uk. I am also chunky as you put it and my doc hasnt mentioned my weight x x x