So fed up!!!

[Zal88]

I am so fed up of my extended family and other people. My OH and I have decided not to tell anyone till after our scan next Sunday, only his parents and sisters and my parents and brothers know, and that's how I wanted to keep it till we are sure everything is okay at our scan.

Now my aunt saw me and suspected I was pregnant and my mum couldn't lie and say no (which annoyed me too) and now she has gone and told everyone! It's totally out of order and I would want to be the one to tell people not some random aunt that I hardly ever see! She has no right! My mum also told her not to mention anything...and she actually said she wouldn't say a word!

I am just soooo fed up I need to rant and feel like calling her up and telling her how out of order she is and she just has no right to say anything.

My mum has also been telling some people too which is so disrespectful to both my OH and I. I am beginning to wish we didn't even tell our own parents

 

[Jayjay027]

Omg I would be so pissed at that! That is so disrespectful!!
If I were u, I'd speak to ur mum and tell her how annoyed u r, and get her to have a go at ur aunt!!

Telling people that ur pregnant is one of the lovely experiences of early pregnancy and nobody has the right to take that away from u, its out of order!! X

 

[Zal88]

I know I am soo pissed off at them all, they're saying it's not a big deal and a lot of women get pregnant, but it's a big deal for me, this is my first pregnancy. If it's not big deal people should shut their mouths and not talk my business to other people. Now my grandparents are a bit upset that I never told them...I can not deal with this rubbish. Ahh so frustrating!