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hiya, i just feel so down. We hardly talk these days. We seem to be more like mates. I have just stopped brestfeeding Keira as i am going back work in 4 weeks yet i still have to get up in the night with her.He works but only normal daily hours. If i dont make the effort as i am tired nor does he.
Whats worse is we are supposed to be getting married in 10 weeks, i really dont wnat to at the moment. I am seriously thinking about leaving with the two girls. I am just worried how it will effect them, especially my 4 year old as she starts school next week
 
Sorry you have to go through this hun :(.Have you spoken to him about this? please dont give up straight away because it would be a massive decision, unless he has done something really wrong? He needs to make more of an effort but maybe you need to speak to him and tell him this. It is also important that he also bonds with you're baby and feeding is a very good method of bonding..Maybe he just isnt great at that sort of thing and needs some guidance? I know that my DF will need guidance on most things and will probably be a little withdrawn at first because he wont know where to start! I tought him to do a nappy on a teddy not long ago hehe, but that was with a disposable, cant wait to see him when he has to put a cloth nappy on a real baby..!!

Thats all i can say really, you need to sit down and have a good long talk, tell him how you're feeling and that sometimes you contemplate just walking out so he see's how much it is effecting you. Also there has been alot of girls in the same position as you so try sifting through this area of the forum and you may find some other veiws and advice that may be of use to you.

Hope this helps
Cassi x
 
thanks hun, he is good with the girls to be honest. It just gets to be how i have been bf for nearly 6 months and getting up in the night with her. I put her on bottle and i still get up with her!
I just feel unloved and our sex life well, havent had it for nearly 2 weeks
just dont know what to do. I love him, well i think
 
sorry 2 hear u gota go threw this hun
i hope u sort all this out b4 u get married
x x x x x
 
Hi I am sort of in the same place of you. i honestly think that i would be better off without him. i dont know. i feel so confused. he does get up in the night (alternate nights) but i'm the one who goes to work, he stays at home. now if you asked all the mums on here that stay at home while thier partner goes to work, i bet a majority of them do all the night feeds. i think i still have a bit of the baby blues. dont even mention sex. its been twice in seven months and to be honest i couldnt care less.
 

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