I started having pains on the sunday night and Charlie was born on the Thursday at 4.50pm, the pains were ok sunday and monday although they were definate contractions, Tuesday was tough going and i went to hospital but got sent home as i was only about 1cm, went back in on the wed night and was only 3-4 cms. I wanted to cry at this point, i managed to go until 8am on thursday with the tens machine but needed gas and air at that point, waters were broken and put on drip at about 1pm and needed diamorphine at this point (dont ever want that again as was completely gaga and dont remember much after that) was fully dilated by 4pm and he was out by 4.50, i was totally knackered by the end, so much so i couldnt even face attempting to feed him myself, i would advise anyone to get as much rest in the early stages as poss, easy for me to say now as at the time i was so convinced giving birth was iminent that i didnt want to sleep but it really is so important.