Geminiblue
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well I received an email saying that she wanted to draw a line under it, that we were not to discuss her ex anymore as it was clearly causing problems.
I responded that I too wished to draw a line under it BUT the fact was that it wasnt about her ex, or how she dealt with her ex it was about her attitude and hows shes treated me recently and how she spoke to me.
Apparently my mum said shed burst into tears at my response, now I had been direct but in no way was I horrible i just explained the reason I was upset and how I felt.
so my mum is saying "I dont know what you want to achieve" I was like, er Im going to tell the truth, I am not going to pretend that its because of something when its not, otherwise the same issue will still arise. Whats wrong with people why cant I say whats upsetting me, why am I in the wrong for that?? I told her if she wanted to carry on sweeping it under the carpet but thats been the problem for her entire life, people enabling her and not speaking out against her narky selffish attitude
I responded that I too wished to draw a line under it BUT the fact was that it wasnt about her ex, or how she dealt with her ex it was about her attitude and hows shes treated me recently and how she spoke to me.
Apparently my mum said shed burst into tears at my response, now I had been direct but in no way was I horrible i just explained the reason I was upset and how I felt.
so my mum is saying "I dont know what you want to achieve" I was like, er Im going to tell the truth, I am not going to pretend that its because of something when its not, otherwise the same issue will still arise. Whats wrong with people why cant I say whats upsetting me, why am I in the wrong for that?? I told her if she wanted to carry on sweeping it under the carpet but thats been the problem for her entire life, people enabling her and not speaking out against her narky selffish attitude
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