Should I stay or should I go?

[Tracey M]

Hi everyone. I love this forum... but maybe its consuming my brain too much? Any spare minute I find myself logging in. First thing in morning to check BFP and then when I go to work I work alone so I find myself on again. I love seeing what will come up next and I really feel for everyone who is TTC the highs and the lows. I'm a mum and now desperate to try for a 2nd baby but as some may know from my past posts that doctor cantfind threads to get my coil out. I've had scan its there all right and now I have to wait on gynae appointment to get it out before I can TTC. So here is my dilemma.... do I stop coming to forum so I can concentrate better at work and at home? I wait until the bloody thing is out of me and then I will feel less like an imposter. OR do I stay on and really get to know you all and just embrace the fact that inside I know I am a POAS addict waiting to happen? Hey because of this forum im already testing my ovulation cos I've not had a period in over 5 years! The chat and advice is great I'm just worried that I will make it consume my already baby filled thoughts :-\ what do you thinkx oh it could take 9 weeks to get the apointment...

 

[TwinklinPixi3]

If coming here to see the forum and spend time here is something you enjoy then why stop? As long as you're not on here when you should be working etc I don't see the harm As much as our journey is up and down in TTC, the community is excellent here, very supportive, so personally, I don't see the harm

 

[flopsybunny]

You put really good posts and good advice...I vote stay!! Although as twinklinpixie said, maybe not let it get in the way of work I am the same, I am always logging on again, I had a few weeks off the forum because I felt I was getting to obsessed, but I really missed the support that is here from all the other girls in the same position.

xx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

stay...or we will find you...

 

[Tracey M]

Ha ha that made me laugh. I think I'll stay but give me a shout if you see me online during the day for any longer than 5 mins and tell me to get on with my work!! Unless any of you need a holiday?? I can help you with that too

 

[Binzy]

I'd say stay! I like reading your opinions too. I never look at work cos I'm scared they'll see what I'm up to! The girl I share an office with is a nosey so and so!Even if she can't speak English I bet she could work it out!

 

[kizzibea]

Yeah, don't go. I only seem to get on at work (silly, that's the only chance I really get to play on the internet - when I should be working, at home I'm always too busy!) and sometimes I sneak on on my phone but I don't want OH looking at the history and seeing I'm on here in case he thinks I'm being obsessive.

I go through phases with getting on here. I used to come on loads then I sort of stopped, then I came back but didn't say anything and now I'm back properly. ^_^