sex life

[Layla]

anyone elses suffering a bit with all this TTC stuff?

im finding it hard to relax and enjoy coz im constantly thinking, is this it, will this work, and im ovulating, have we timmed it rigt, blah blah blah lol

im not "arriving" atall lately, and its nothing my OH has done, please tell me its not just me!

sorry this is a bit personal isnt it ha ha

xxx

 

[jenna]

i feel like im concentrating too much on the baby stuff rather the sex stuff. Its annoying!

 

I feel the same hun, and so does OH, he is kind of struggling to 'arrive' sometimes too, goes numb he gets all apranoid about it

 

[arcanegirl]

We used to have this problem and als because either one of both of us werent really in the mood for it.
We sorted it by taking our time with playing around and if needed watching a video (you know what kind lol), its been much better since doing this.

Dont forget, babies are created out of love.

 

[rach]

layla this is exactly how i felt this last month it was awful really felt like a chore which is not us as we bd a lot normally but when the pressure was on i hardly ever arrived and o/h was struggling it was almost a relief when i had ovulation confirmed weve only done it once since xxxxxx

 

[jenna]

buy some sex toys...*almost put a link here until i realised about advertising rules, not sure if its ok* Anyway i love my zuzzy pink toy *sorry if TMI*

 

[Layla]

glad its not just me! and its only the first month of trying again!

told my Oh about it this morning, he agrees its prob coz i have alot on my mind.


lol jenna!

xxx

 

[rach]

yeah probably hun if i was you id stop using opks as they are just stressful and bd at least every 2-3 days im sure i ovulated late this month due to the stress of using opks xxxxxxxxx

 

[Layla]

lol rach....see chart stalker thread

xx

 

[rach]

sorry bit slow today xxx

 

[Fingers crossed]

When we started TTC we BD'd every other day, but now we just do it when we feel like it. Cos we booked a holiday in Jan/Feb and I start a 9 month college course next month I'm not that bothered if it takes a couple more months to get a BFP. Plus sometimes OH says he feels like he's being used and it's not loving anymore, especially if we BD too much. Can you believe it, you'd think that he'd be happy he's getting more . When I got my last pills I got TTC advice from the doc cos of my AF and when I told OH that the doc said we'd have to make sure there was always sperm there just in case, so BD every couple of days, he said "well if we don't do it that much now why should I!!" Men eh

 

[Wobbles]

Defo PREASURE PREASURE!

I was the same Layla - One of the reasons I stopped using OPKs so much.

We spiced up our sex life a little, one thing I never really got into but hey ho I trust my OH, I'm comfortable with him & I wanna have his kids (I lack in self confidenece alot)

I think you have the odds on your side hunny but I can understand why you want this so much! CHILL OUT woman When you do get your BFP you'd of spent the 2 weeks before stressing

 

[Wobbles]

Reminds me we've still not made his willy

 

[Layla]

lol, yeah i know i should stop stressing, and im sorry, i know your all getting sick of me going on lol

its just strange, one min im pregnant, the next im not, and i still should be in my head, i cant really explain it but im sure you understand how it is.

jase said he wants me to stop stressing too, we didnt have a prob catching for Coby, but i said even if i stop now, i will be worried for teh first 12 weeks untill i see a healthy baby on the screen.

im just a born worrier i think lol

xx

 

[Wobbles]

Oh you should stop stressing but that don't mean anyone is sick of you or you should say sorry you silly sausage! I know where your coming from 100% you don't have to explain - Jee the first message I made here was hi the second one I went into a big mad raving rant!!

Just worried about you

We all worry but worry does no good just hope & stay positive it will all pan out just fine I bet!

 

[Layla]

aww thanks hun, that made me cry lol (god im such a girl!)

lol i will try my best to chill out, i know i could do with some chilling.

xx

 

[Wobbles]

Always easier said than done I know but I hope you do for your own sake.

 

[rach]

tears oh no cant take it will have to join in big huge to you layla hun we are all here for you hunny every step of the way xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Emma22]

your not on your own Layla, think most of us suffer with the pressure

 

[Layla]

thanks guys

xxx