Well - I have had one strange sex dream which was okay, I haven't had sex dreams since my teenage years. I dreamt that I was kissing a gay friend of mine, and he said that it was strange that I'd never thought of him as a man...my husband said "hah...I knew you always fancied that bloke!"
I've had the death dreams too - one about my Dad, one about the baby. My mother died five years ago and she's come back to talk to me and offer me advice two or three times...which I take as an indication of how much I miss her. One of those dreams was interrupted and I woke up bawling in tears because I hadn't finished what I wanted to ask her.
I've had other dreams about saying goodbye to old boyfriends and cuddling up to my hubby, which are consoling.
Anyhow...I've read up on dream interpretation, and any book that I've seen says that a death dream is not a bad omen at all, but normally an indication of a great change in your life, indicating the "death" of the old way of life and making way for the new. Our minds work in strange ways, girls, and what bigger change is there than pregnancy and motherhood?
I think...laugh at your dreams. They are the only place where fears and speculations can come true without doing you any harm. I can actually control a dream. If I don't like it, I tell myself to wake up, and most of the time, I do. Most people say it's your mind and subconscious organising exeriences and filing events and emotions in order to make it easier for you to deal with them.
*shrugs* Sorry for going into lecture mode, it's a subject I find fascinating.
Sue
Wierd it was half cast though - I'm not reacist at all - it's just me and OH are white!
neither very nice, but luckily not often dreams /nightmares are as bad as that!
