Scan tomorrow and I won the toss!!! **Disappointed update**

[lulu]

Hi guys

seems like there is a few of us off for our scans!!!

Mine is tomorrow morning (9.30) I am worried whether everything is ok as I still have not felt a definite kick, and all the other stuff you worry about.

I won the coin toss to find out the flavour though so I am excited about that.

Hope all is ok in there!!!

 

[ASD123456]

Good luck with your scan tomorrow! I hope everything is perfect.

Alex xxx

 

[jendav81]

Hey hun, hope all goes well tomorrow xx

 

[sarafet]

aww enjoy seeing your baby hun, i'm sure everything will be perfect!

what do you think it will be then? i'll say BOY!!!
xxxx

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

Good luck for tommorow Hon
Glad you won the toss
Looking forward to hearing your up date
Lol Sarah

 

[Becs]

Ooooo you must be in there now. Hope it's going well. xx

 

[MissSara]

Hurry back and tell us the flavour, i'm going to say BOY too.

 

[lulu]

well I am a little disappointed, I told the sonographer that I wanted to find out the sex and she said 'We don't normally check the gender as a rule!' she then made hardly any effort to look, took the usual measurements etc and then said 'well I cant see between the babies legs so we will have to leave it at that!!!' I was so upset and even had a little cry.

I was so excited about finding out- like Christmas when your little!!!

The good news ( I know this should be the most important bit) baby is fine and everything is ok.

I'm relieved at that as I have not felt much movement but still cant help feeling disappointed with the whole experience really!!!
(sorry, I know I should be more positive and grateful!)

 

[BeckyJ]

glad baby is healthy and just think of the lovely surprise u have to come

 

[jenna]

sorry they didnt tell you the sex, glad everythings ok though

 

[Suzie and Faith]

an excuse for a 4d scan perhaps?

Glad all is well with baby xxx

 

[lulu]

can't afford a 4d scan

 

[Bee]

Glad everything is ok

U don't want to know what u are having - join team green! and have a surprise!

 

[bellybump]

im all for team green too! if my DP has his way, then we'll be finding out, i hope not though. Some hospitals do have policies regardning sexing scans, usually when they have a large proportion of false claims for parents, they get told by boards to refrain from telling expectant parents. If you wanted to know the sex, go to a different hospital thats what my sister did lol. She had 'pains' one day and so she and her husband went lol, they also told her the sex

 

[bellybump]

not that i would suggest lying of course

 

[Geordie&Bairn]

Congratualtions on you happy healthy baby
Shame about not being able to find out the sex
Just see it as a wonderful xmas and birthdays suprise rolled into one.
lOL SARAH

 

[lulu]

well we didn't find out with Jack so I wanted to experience knowing this time round!

There was two sonographers and I was hoping to get the other one, she did my 12 week scan and was lovely, really took the time to show me and explain things. The one I had this time did my scans with jack and she was the same then, moody and not very informative!

 

[MissSara]

firstly im glad everything is all well with the baby.
But like you i would also be a bit upset about not finding out the sex, maybe your OH slipped her £20 to not tell ya so he won.........lol

 

[nutcase109]

hi belly bump - what does it mean, when you say false claims from parents? Just tinterested in why some nhs scans wont tell you the sex. I wondered if it was because they worried that people might try and have a termination if it wasnt the sex they wanted or something! x