romance is dead! lol

[Lilelephant]

Sex now commemces with hubby saying take your trousers off then! Ha ha just wonder what you lot do to keep it interesting?

 

[jarjar7]

Lol...I'm with you there, our sex starts with my OH saying 'take your top off' or 'wanna give me a blow job'!!! The last few months we've been soooo focused on baby making that sex has gone off the boil and it got to the point where we literally were only doing it during OV week so we have agreed to knock it all on the head and just generally have sex more throughout the whole month, to try and get some of the enjoyment back! xxx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Jarjar I totally agree with you! Thats what weve dont this month and reagrdless of if we get our BFP this month or not its been the best decision weve made! No more stress, sex was also just for baby making and not for us while thats all changed and its now what it used to be before TTC and obviously while were not literally actively TTC we certainly not preventing so who knows maybe it will just happen at some point!

I now have a much happier, less pressured husband and hes back to being romantic, unpreditable, and spontenious!

And have to say the weight loss is helping too as weve re-discovered positions we thought we lost! lol

Binning all the opks, hpts, checking and charting has been the best move weve made! xxx

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

Ok so the only thing we are doing differently while ttc is to try and keep the sperm in, and also temp charting so I know when I have OV so I can count my 2ww.
We always used to have sex every night sometimes twice a night but for the last couple of years we have sex every other night unless AF is here, sometimes we manage once while AF is here but not very often!
I try to up it around suspected OV but am not too strict on this and will get it when I want it generally!!!

I would love to have it every night though! I'm greedy like that! And its not just for TTC its because I love sex!!!