Relationship issues

[preggersmama]

This tends to be the theme of what I’m posting but I’m worried about my and baby’s health from a fight with SO. I was fast asleep and he woke me up at 3am to falsely accuse me of cheating and posting sex videos online. This isn’t the first time he’s made ludicrous accusations like this but it is the first time while I’m pregnant.

Between being woken up and angry, I flipped out and we ended up fighting for an hour. He told me it’s my own fault if something happens to the baby because he told me to relax...when my DH accused me of cheating. I’m so upset and scared with so many emotions. Will these keep happening, do I want my baby brought into this, but I don’t want to raise a baby as a single parent. I’ve never been unfaithful but this is so upsetting. What do I do?!

 

[Kholl]

You leave. He's dangerously unstable. He needs some kind of intensive inpatient therapy and likely medication. There is something diagnosable happening here and until he gets serious help you can't be around him.

My best friend just FINALLY left her husband after 5 years of this exact kind of insanity. It took a devastating toll on her children. You don't want the repercussions she's experiencing, trust me.

 

[chattychar1990]

I noticed you posted previously about your husbands behaviour aswell as this post.
He sounds very controlling and not the kind of person I would want to bring my child up around.
Leave!

 

[Lollypop79]

I agree with all of above. These are some serious red flags. Leave as soon as possible for your safety and your unborn child’s xx

 

[night owl]

I agree with everyone else, he sounds very unstable and paranoid, for the sake of your own health you don’t have to put up with that, children pick up on a lot from a very young age, witnessing that kind of thing will cause untold levels of stress and anxiety which can cause lasting damage, the child is better off in a peaceful single parent household then a toxic environment like that, hopefully he will be willing to accept his behaviour is out of order and get some professional help if you sit him down and have a serious conversation with him about it x