emmaandamyleigh
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grrr other halfs men do they do anything you ask grrrr
im really getting sick of oh i ve asked him for the past 3 days to take therubbish out he knows that for health and safeyty icant take it down as you have to go down thru the kitchen. and he still hasnt i keep reminding him to take it down when he comes up but forgets and rushes out. but if he wants me to tidy up i have to do it. but more to the point apart from work he does nothing unless we make a deal if he goes to the shop i tidy up or if i go to the shop he tidys up but now im really getting sick coz im getting upwith amy and looking after her feeding and changing her what does he do with her nothing apart from play with her everytime i say you have to do more or we have an argument he goes all huffy coz i say he doesnt do anything with her im tired and worn out im also pregnant which he knows but i dont think hes going to help out even with this one and now he wounders why he dont get much bedroom action er hello im tire after being awake from 7 till what ever time i fall asleep. so far ive bought all amys present he aint bothered to come with me. and he wants games and remote control car and a new coat for xmas. what do i get i dont get a thanks i wont even have any pressies myself. he says he feels guilty coz he cant afford toget me anything thats aload of bull. because he can he just chooses to buy him self crap like 45 quid on a head set for xxmas and he sed he could get me one no way 45 quid could get me some new clothes or something thats worth 45 quid. i tell him to go out shopping for my xmas pressie he says no i dont need to i can get off amazon thats pure lazy i think i mean i have to go out to get his pressies with amy on his days off he sits in front of the comp or xbox and ignores us only talks to me if he wants me to make him a cig so he can go stand out side or if he want something else. when ifirst met he wasnt like this he bought me pressies, he brought me a coffee or tea up when hes on breakfast he use to make me something to eat, we use to sit in front of the tv and eat some food together now he colmplains when iask for something to eat. well me and amy both need to eat im ont going to starve just coz hecant be arsed. im know thing will he ever change from being this heartless or will he be the same forever im really doubting our relationship. he also doesnt care if he upsets me or not sorry about the rant im just so sick of being treat like a house maid or a nanny i love amy so much and i dont mind looking after her but it seems that ive got two roles to play and i might as well be a single parent coz i feel like that at the mo
im really getting sick of oh i ve asked him for the past 3 days to take therubbish out he knows that for health and safeyty icant take it down as you have to go down thru the kitchen. and he still hasnt i keep reminding him to take it down when he comes up but forgets and rushes out. but if he wants me to tidy up i have to do it. but more to the point apart from work he does nothing unless we make a deal if he goes to the shop i tidy up or if i go to the shop he tidys up but now im really getting sick coz im getting upwith amy and looking after her feeding and changing her what does he do with her nothing apart from play with her everytime i say you have to do more or we have an argument he goes all huffy coz i say he doesnt do anything with her im tired and worn out im also pregnant which he knows but i dont think hes going to help out even with this one and now he wounders why he dont get much bedroom action er hello im tire after being awake from 7 till what ever time i fall asleep. so far ive bought all amys present he aint bothered to come with me. and he wants games and remote control car and a new coat for xmas. what do i get i dont get a thanks i wont even have any pressies myself. he says he feels guilty coz he cant afford toget me anything thats aload of bull. because he can he just chooses to buy him self crap like 45 quid on a head set for xxmas and he sed he could get me one no way 45 quid could get me some new clothes or something thats worth 45 quid. i tell him to go out shopping for my xmas pressie he says no i dont need to i can get off amazon thats pure lazy i think i mean i have to go out to get his pressies with amy on his days off he sits in front of the comp or xbox and ignores us only talks to me if he wants me to make him a cig so he can go stand out side or if he want something else. when ifirst met he wasnt like this he bought me pressies, he brought me a coffee or tea up when hes on breakfast he use to make me something to eat, we use to sit in front of the tv and eat some food together now he colmplains when iask for something to eat. well me and amy both need to eat im ont going to starve just coz hecant be arsed. im know thing will he ever change from being this heartless or will he be the same forever im really doubting our relationship. he also doesnt care if he upsets me or not sorry about the rant im just so sick of being treat like a house maid or a nanny i love amy so much and i dont mind looking after her but it seems that ive got two roles to play and i might as well be a single parent coz i feel like that at the mo
not sure what to say as u know him better... but i would lay the law down and tell him if u have to act like a single parent you may as well be getting the extra benefits!!! hes prob only doing what he thinks he can get away with... if that dont work stop tidying up after him and dont cook for him no sex nothing!! lol xx
