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gosh i feel like crap, i get the feeling that my bf isnt as interested in me anymore, he is not half as affectionate and nothing is happening in the bedroom department :wall: sorry for tmi. i am just glad i have got my lil hope to talk to, and you guys x
 
Aw hun, sorry to hear you're feeling down.

Maybe he's just trying to give you some space and peace, maybe he thinks he is doing the right thing by not hassling you for sex? Who knows what goes on in a mans mind hun!

Hope you get things sorted xxx :hug:
 
i wouldnt mind but its me that is hinting to him and he always has an excuse, i just want him to be like he was before coz i dont feel loved, i wanna cry :cry:
 
Have you spoken to him about how you're feeling hun?
 
yes many a time but nothing comes of it:( i really dont know what to do???
 
Maybe he is just finding such a big change hard..I would talk to him hun, hope everything works out :)
 
Aw hun, i don't know what to say to you apart from try talking to him again and explain to him how it's making you feel, maybe that'll give him the push he needs!

:hug:
 
everytime i try talking to him everything just satys the same, i am just running on low fuel now:(
 
Could it be he's worried about "hurting" you or something like that? :think: Maybe he's pressured at work or worrying about something else?

Men are strange sometimes but I'm sure it's only temporary. Keep talking and showing him affection and maybe he'll come round.

:hug:
Sabrina
 
I was gonna say the same Sabrina. Some guys even though they're told that it won't harm the baby are scared to do anything as they still worry.
 
awww hun i am so sorry is not going well for u at the moment im here to tlk if u need to
 
Maybe he is seeing you as a mum and not in the same way he used to, it pretty normal for mens primitve minds lol. Can you get a sitter for the night and go out somewhere were you used to go, get really dressed up and remind him your a woman and not just the mother of his child, that might put a bit of spice back!
 
hey ppl, i am aloyt better, only after last night coz after about a week of blagging him i got what i wanted, 2 times sorry for tmi :oops: i think he was just a bit frightened that my piull wouldnt work again but i have assured him i have not had any alcohol or anything so we shud be fine:) thanks guys xx
 

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