Hi All, this forum brings back such fond memories from my first Pregnancy with Olivia from March 2014. All though my title was I wanttobeamum or something along those lines.
So a little of my history I had Olivia in March 2014 and was induced a week early as she'd stopped growing and low water. The pregnancy itself was great, besides the total overwhelmingness of it all. I really loved it was def the best version of myself when pregnant. Balanced hormones etc 😂
A year after Olivia I felt in a dark dark place, but at the same time I was bursting with proudness everyday watching my baby girl grow. Anyhow I went to docs who put me on meds, I had also somehow managed to put on 5 stone and adding that to the 14 I was previously well yes got my self into a bit of a mess so with that and the depression I was accepted for a gastric bypass. The relief I felt I can't explain, someone had listened and they were going to help. I had the bypass in Dec 15 and I've been on a uphill road once again, feeling positive about our future. My partner/fiancé Nigel was with me 💯 on everything! I know lucky right!
So Lost 7 stone and I came of anti depressants. We started ttc conceive at the end of last year but to be fair we were having an extension done so weren't really on it. So the past few months we've consciously been trying to conceive but when I realised how busy and ad hoc our shifts were I took out my clear blue fertility monitor. So we've done the deed 4 times over the high and peak days, so now it's a wait and see....
One thing I wanted to ask was when I had peak day I had one huge cramp that lasted about 5 seconds. I then had an urgency to use the toilet for a number 2. I also remember this happening the month before but I can't say if it was at peak time. Upon research I see it may be the egg release a possible bursting of cysts ... although I don't know if I have cysts etc so I'm just speculating, but does anyone have any thoughts on such a cramp in the pelvis area ??
Haha I did just come to say hi and now you've my life. But it is really lovely to be back and I look forward to reading into your journies and big puff of baby dust to all of you xx
So a little of my history I had Olivia in March 2014 and was induced a week early as she'd stopped growing and low water. The pregnancy itself was great, besides the total overwhelmingness of it all. I really loved it was def the best version of myself when pregnant. Balanced hormones etc 😂
A year after Olivia I felt in a dark dark place, but at the same time I was bursting with proudness everyday watching my baby girl grow. Anyhow I went to docs who put me on meds, I had also somehow managed to put on 5 stone and adding that to the 14 I was previously well yes got my self into a bit of a mess so with that and the depression I was accepted for a gastric bypass. The relief I felt I can't explain, someone had listened and they were going to help. I had the bypass in Dec 15 and I've been on a uphill road once again, feeling positive about our future. My partner/fiancé Nigel was with me 💯 on everything! I know lucky right!
So Lost 7 stone and I came of anti depressants. We started ttc conceive at the end of last year but to be fair we were having an extension done so weren't really on it. So the past few months we've consciously been trying to conceive but when I realised how busy and ad hoc our shifts were I took out my clear blue fertility monitor. So we've done the deed 4 times over the high and peak days, so now it's a wait and see....
One thing I wanted to ask was when I had peak day I had one huge cramp that lasted about 5 seconds. I then had an urgency to use the toilet for a number 2. I also remember this happening the month before but I can't say if it was at peak time. Upon research I see it may be the egg release a possible bursting of cysts ... although I don't know if I have cysts etc so I'm just speculating, but does anyone have any thoughts on such a cramp in the pelvis area ??
Haha I did just come to say hi and now you've my life. But it is really lovely to be back and I look forward to reading into your journies and big puff of baby dust to all of you xx
I look forward to getting to know you xx
