fuffins1981
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I apologise to any first timers, as I do not want to scare anyone.
This is just me
When I had my son (nearly six years ago), I was in labour for approx 21.5 hours. The labour was very painful (as his back was to mine, so had labour pains in back and stomach)
However, coped very well with the pain. Was tiring, but if you soldier on, you get through it.
Pushing was a relief at the end. Was not pushing for too long. Was standing up to have him...So gravity was with me.
But, when it came to the head crowning she told me to stop pushing and I couldn't and I tore (sorry if TMI)....and it burnt like hell....Now I know why they call it 'the ring of fire'
So, I am petrified I will do the same again this time. It is the only thing I am scared of. The labour pains I can deal with and the stitches afterwards, I hardly felt. Just that 10 seconds in the whole thing has put the fear of God in me!
I just hope my bits are a little more 'elasticated' this time!
This is just me
When I had my son (nearly six years ago), I was in labour for approx 21.5 hours. The labour was very painful (as his back was to mine, so had labour pains in back and stomach)
However, coped very well with the pain. Was tiring, but if you soldier on, you get through it.
Pushing was a relief at the end. Was not pushing for too long. Was standing up to have him...So gravity was with me.
But, when it came to the head crowning she told me to stop pushing and I couldn't and I tore (sorry if TMI)....and it burnt like hell....Now I know why they call it 'the ring of fire'
So, I am petrified I will do the same again this time. It is the only thing I am scared of. The labour pains I can deal with and the stitches afterwards, I hardly felt. Just that 10 seconds in the whole thing has put the fear of God in me!
I just hope my bits are a little more 'elasticated' this time!