I'm having really awful thoughts lately about breaking up with my partner. Our son is now almost 16 months old and my partner only does dad-things him when it's convenient for him. If it's not convenient, he just won't do it, no matter how exhausted or sleep-deprived I might be. I've gone from disappointment to disappointment ever since our son was born, and although we've been working on our relationship through couples' counselling in the past 8 months, I still meet a wall with my partner whenever his needs collide with mine or our son's. When I got pregnant we had only been together for about a year and a half and didn't really think it through because I had been told I'd have a hard time conceiving. It's just devastating to think that I've made a mistake having a child with him. A big part of me feels that I want to break up and another that this would really hurt our son, and that's just something I can't do. I so want my partner to show that he cares more! But no matter how I've asked for it or explained how I feel, he'd still put his own needs over our family's every time it matters. Has anyone else felt this way? Or even found a way to resolve a similar situation?