specialmami
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Hi ladies,
Thought this might be the best place to post this thread.
So as title says I had a previous pre term baby. DS was born at 33+4 weeks back in 2010. I am now pregnant again and had been referred to a consultant due to the pre term labour.
Went to by appt yesterday and was absolutely disappointed. It was nothing but a waste of time. She took my BP and urine sample asked about my pregnancy and how early DS was and care at neonatal and then just replied well Im not going to make another appt for you with me I think you have to be in sync with your body and if you feel your going into pre term labour again call the hospital.
I couldnt believe it!!! I know woman that were in neonatal with us at the time and have now gone onto have 2nd babies and had constant extra care the second time around. One of them like me had bever been told why she went into early delivery and still doesnt know. Her 2nd baby is now here safe and sound and also pre term but luckily not as early this time round.
Is this a response I should have gotten from the consultant yesterday? Just so angry and annoyed. I feel like I have no support from health care in this pregnancy. I dont even have a MW as she left 4 weeks ago and still havent been assigned a new one.
In my notes it states i get anxious in pregnancies due to history of recurrent MC's etc and this is the care I get???
Should it be different or am I just expecting more than what is supposed to be????
Thought this might be the best place to post this thread.
So as title says I had a previous pre term baby. DS was born at 33+4 weeks back in 2010. I am now pregnant again and had been referred to a consultant due to the pre term labour.
Went to by appt yesterday and was absolutely disappointed. It was nothing but a waste of time. She took my BP and urine sample asked about my pregnancy and how early DS was and care at neonatal and then just replied well Im not going to make another appt for you with me I think you have to be in sync with your body and if you feel your going into pre term labour again call the hospital.
I couldnt believe it!!! I know woman that were in neonatal with us at the time and have now gone onto have 2nd babies and had constant extra care the second time around. One of them like me had bever been told why she went into early delivery and still doesnt know. Her 2nd baby is now here safe and sound and also pre term but luckily not as early this time round.
Is this a response I should have gotten from the consultant yesterday? Just so angry and annoyed. I feel like I have no support from health care in this pregnancy. I dont even have a MW as she left 4 weeks ago and still havent been assigned a new one.
In my notes it states i get anxious in pregnancies due to history of recurrent MC's etc and this is the care I get???
Should it be different or am I just expecting more than what is supposed to be????