Pretty pointless really, just for my sake

[natashateale]

This is a pretty pointless thread tbh but thought i needed to put it down.
As some as you may know me and OH had a big fall out at the end of aug/beginning of sept and we decided to stop ttc just for a month to get things right again between us. Well i have been so occupied trying to get us back on track, which we are now, that i have have completely forgotten about my cycles days sometimes and had to think twice about it. I think we had just fallen into a routine with every thing and now everything is so much better between us now that that routine has been broken. We have now decided to ttc without ttc if that makes sense lol. No more opks, no more counting dpo just keeping track of my cycle days now as they are still irregular. It might happen that i no when i OVd and when my 2ww is but i am not goin to obsesse about it now. That is all lol.

 

[deedee84]

hee hee u make me chuckle but i would say its a good idea! with my LO i didnt have access to the internet didnt have a clue when i ov'd etc and didnt even know i was preg until i was 6weeks gone and tbh thinking back it was so much better, no stress or anything i plodded on as normal and never worried about every little thing! this time around because i am aware and have access to the internet i am finding that i am more worried and constantly checking things out and counting days, probably better to just chill and let it happen in due course without all the mind boggling dates and facts etc xx

 

[blondy13]

Hi hun, glad you have sorted things out
It's probably a really good way of doing things to not worry about ttc, like deedee says definitely less stressful!
And we all know what happens when you relax and don't think about it....*cough cough BFP*
so fx for you xxx

 

[Bellarina]

glad everything has worked out for the better hun and i agre with blondy ul prob find now ur more relaxed about it all ul get ur bfp lol xx